u/Pomdapi113

Bonjour. Ça fait deux ans que je vie et travail en France mais je commence à me sentir très seule. Je vis avec mon conjoint qui viens d’ici mais il n’est pas très entouré non plus . Je ne sais pas comment me faire des amis ici, je me suis fait une copine au travail mais l’année dernière elle est partie et elle est devenue très bizarre envers moi. Du coup je nessaye plus de la contacter. J’ai essayé aussi avec une dame de mon village mais après quel a vu que j’avais 7ans de moins elle m’a dit qu’elle était trop occupée .Jai l’impression que tout le monde ici sont que amis avec les gens de leurs enfances . J’ai trop honte d’essayer d’aller au clubs car je n’ai pas de talents . J’ai la honte de parler an français aussi meme si je dois le faire tous les jours et je ne sais pas si c’est à cause de ça que j’ai plus de mal. Par exemple je trouve difficile de faire des blagues , je trouve que les filles sont un peu diffèrent ici que dans mon pays . Je parle couramment français mais je ne suis pas à l’aise , c’est difficile à expliquer . Je pense aussi que ça n’aide pas d’être dans une petite ville. Je n’ai jamais été aussi seule que maintenant . Je suis désolée pour les fautes mais j’ai la flemme de mettre dans un IA . Des conseils sont bienvenue .

Hi everyone. At the beginning of April, I adopted a 1 year old boy from the shelter. There wasn't much information about his past just that he was living on the streets with his siblings. At the point that I took him he was at the shelter for 3 months. He was very afraid of humans. He is castrated.

I have a 2 year old boy at home. Shelter cat likes him and kind of uses him as a support in the home. Even though I got him his own litterbox and bowl, he likes to share with my first cat. He often follows him around, initiates play, snuggles him and chirps at him.

However over the course of 2 months he still does not let me near him. Despite him seeing me prepare his food everyday, he still runs from me when I walk past. I do not try to touch him. He hisses at me sometimes but only if I come too close. However, if I'm in bed he will sometimes come and sit on the bed with me which I find odd.

Basically the question I am asking is if anyone has had a similar experience with a "feral" (although he is very friendly to my cat) cat and if there is any hope of me being able to cuddle him or stroke him one day. He is extremely cute so it makes me sad. I guess he is kind of my cat's cat. Any advice appreciated.

Hi everyone. At the beginning of April, I adopted a 1 year old boy from the shelter. There wasn't much information about his past just that he was living on the streets with his siblings. At the point that I took him he was at the shelter for 3 months. He was very afraid of humans. He is castrated.

I have a 2 year old boy at home. Shelter cat likes him and kind of uses him as a support in the home. Even though I got him his own litterbox and bowl, he likes to share with my first cat. He often follows him around, initiates play, snuggles him and chirps at him.

However over the course of 2 months he still does not let me near him. Despite him seeing me prepare his food everyday, he still runs from me when I walk past. I do not try to touch him. He hisses at me sometimes but only if I come too close. However, if I'm in bed he will sometimes come and sit on the bed with me which I find odd.

Basically the question I am asking is if anyone has had a similar experience with a "feral" (although he is very friendly to my cat) cat and if there is any hope of me being able to cuddle him or stroke him one day. He is extremely cute so it makes me sad. I guess he is kind of my cat's cat. Any advice appreciated.