u/Positive-Strain-1912

I’m a 24 yr female. I’ve struggled with an extremely unhealthy codependent relationship with my mother for all of my adult life, and I’m at a point where I’m thinking it’s time I finally pack up and just leave.

I can’t stay in this house any longer. My life is slowly withering away as time passes, and I know if I continue to stay here things will only get worse.

I’m posting this to ask if anyone here has experience with this. The thought of packing up and leaving everything I’ve ever known behind to go into the unknown is horrifying, and I know it’s highly impulsive and irrational to just leave without a plan or a place to stay, but I at least have a pretty good bit of money saved up.

If anyone has any advice or tips or has done this before pls share. Thank you.

Ik a lot of y’all are avoiding something in your life rn, idk to what degree of stress it may or may not be causing you, but take this as a sign to PLS CONFRONT THE THING YOU’VE BEEN AVOIDING.

I’ve been losing sleep over avoiding a very important conversation with someone, and I finally had it, and not a single bad thing that I thought might happen happened. Not a single one. I know we tend to struggle with this as 9’s, and I just wanted to give some encouragement to PLSSS do the things that you’re working yourself up about. Nothing is EVER as bad as it is in your head. Ever. BE BRAVE my fellow 9’s.

Love spell is one of my all time favorite scents, and I’d really love to find a long lasting perfume that smells like it since the body mist isn’t as strong. If anyone has any recs please lmk! Thanks.