u/PositiveCause8092

Pata hai aaj kya hua? ME AND MY CRUSH MADE IT OFFICIAL. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Basically, he's a good friend of my best friend, and we both developed a HUGE crush on eachother. So my best friend played matchmaker and i found out that he liked me too. Then we met up to "hang out" last weekend but it was really a date like he picked me up on his bike, we went to an escape room, then to a picnic he set up at a very beautiful park like awwwwwwwww cutie pie

He dropped me off at my house after the day ended and i confessed. He got really awkward and asked me for time to think and i thought i fumbled BAD. I was super sad the next couple days and even yelled at my bsf for giving me false hope and shi. BUT THEN, i threw up and fainted in school (fuh this heatwave omg) AND HE CAME TO MY HOUSE WITH SOUP

We talked and stuff properly, he said sorry for leaving like that and he was just very overwhelmed but he liked me too. After like a day of dancing around this, we just made it official on text today. I'M SO HAPPYYYY

Pata hai aaj kya hua? So my hb (homeboy meaning a bsf who's a guy) has this guy who he's good friends with. Sometimes when we're hanging out he tags along. I never rlly talked to him much and let my hb lead the conversations cuz i dont rlly talk to new people that openly. After he started coming around more i became more comfortable with him, so we started talking.

BRO HE'S SO NICE TO TALK TO. He's so funny i cry everytime we talk (from laughing), so smart (like not just book smart but INTELLECTUALLY, LIKE HE HAS SOME OF THE MOST NUANCED TAKES I HAVE EVER COME ACROSS, BE IT ON RELIGION, POLITICS, WARS, WHATEVER IT IS) AND HE'S ONE OF THOSE PPL YOU JUST NEVER HAVE AWKWARD SILENCES WITH. LIKE WE JUST YAP AND YAP AND YAP AND AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Also he smells so niceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. Like if i could nuzzle up in his chest forever i would. I've started dreaming of his smell it's getting that bad.

PLUS, HE'S A READER. LIKE AN ACTUAL READER NOT A PERFORMATIVE ONE. HE READS FANTASY LIKE ME AND ITS SO FUN TO TALK ABOUT BOOKS AND AUTHORS AND STUFF WITH HIM. HE'S ONE OF THE FEW PPL I CAN DO THIS WITH IT MAKES ME SO HAPPY. NOT TO MENTION HE WATCHES THE SAME SHOWS AS I DO. LIKE AHHHHHHHHHHH

HE'S ALSO THE WORLD'S BEST LISTENER. GENUINELY, HE IS SO PATIENT, ASKS FOLLOW UP QUESTIONS, REMEMBERS LITTLE THINGS FROM DAYS AGO, IT JS MELTS MY HEART WHENEVER HE DOES IT. AND HE'S ALSO SO EMPATHETIC. HE'LL FIND THE GOOD IN ANYTHING.

I ALSO FEEL SO SAFE AROUND HIM. LIKE I'M IN A CUCOON. I SMILE LIKE JOKER WHENEVER HE TEXTS ME. LIKE VROOO OMG.

I THINK I'M COOKED CONSIDERING THERE'S LOW CHANCES OF HIM LIKING ME, PLUS HE'S MY HB'S FRIEND. UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Okay so this situation is kinda ridiculous, but whatever. I (15f) was making stuff for my mom for tomorrow. She's not been in my home country for 5 years since she always flies back to the country she's posted in for work 2 days after my birthday ends (so on 3rd May) but this year, she extended her trip which was nice. I've been super excited and have been going all out preparing for this since yesterday (I was supposed to start on monday but i procrastinated lmao). I'm making her a little scrapbook full of my fav memories with her, plus a handmade bouquet and cards obviously. I'm doing this because she prefers handmade gifts over store-bought gifts. My dad is the complete opposite and he prefers store-bought gifts. That's why i always give my mom letters, banners, etc. and give my dad material things with a card.

Me and my dad have always had this bestie dynamic. Like obviously he parents me and stuff, but i tell him gossip and shi over ice-cream too. My mom's a busier person so i can't do this as often with her. Both of them therefore assumed that i like my dad more (not true but okay). So he's watching me do this for her and is like "ig the fav parent has switched, huh" and i told him there was no fav parent to begin with, then he asked why i didn't do all of this for him on father's day, i told him that i gave him a literal foot massage machine with my grandparents' help, he told me he didn't get that big of a card (he's calling the letter + scrapbook a card here, in addition to the actual card), and i told him that he didn't get it because i can say ts to his face everyday but i can't with mom. He said okay but he's been acting kinda sad ever since then.

Idk bro, i don't think i'm doing anything wrong for doing this for my mom but at the same time, i rlly didn't do that much for him on father's day. I gave him his gift and the card, we watched movies, that was it, but with my mom i'm planning a pretty fun day. Like, idk, am i showing favouritism or smth? Shud i have done smth more for father's day?

Basically, i used to long ass peekaboo hair i rlly loved. It used to be till my lower back. My ex (who i recently broke up with) used to love it too so i was jokingly telling my friends that i would chop it off at a sleepover.

While i was sleeping, one of my friends chopped it off, specially the top layer, to my chin. She was like "you asked for it!" when i confronted her. Anyways it looks horrendous. Is there any saving it or shud i stick to wigs? (I'm 15 btw so i won't show my face or anything but yeah)