After a certain age is it on you if your not over your trauma?
I saw this on tiktok and really wondered cus yes i agree after a certain age you have to stop blaming your bad qualitys on “when i was younger” but at the same time some things are just too bad to ever fully recover from. So are you truly a bad person to be in your thirtys saying “i am the way i am because ___ happened years ago” or are some things exceptions to that rule?