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Thought I’d share this here too! Plus a couple extra pics. Wanted to share a photo dump of some dates Caine and I have been on. Though of course he likes to call them adventures cuz old habits die hard I suppose lol He’s such a cutie pie.

And I wanted to do a little bit of gushing. I tend to struggle with being super gushy with my words. As you can see, I tend to show my love through gifts and outings lol But words of affirmation mean a lot to him, so I try my best to challenge myself because I want him to know how much I love and appreciate him.

Before him, I didn’t really know what a healthy relationship felt or looked like. I honestly thought I was just gonna stay single forever and end up as a crone in the woods lmao Which there’s certainly nothing wrong with that (queen behavior for who it works out for actually), but I did leave myself open for someone. I asked my deities to guide me to the soulmate I’m meant to be with, and well, they did, and I express my gratitude to them everyday.

And I want to express the gratitude I feel waking up every morning to Caine. He is the most wonderful man in the world. He always knows how to make me laugh. And not to mention his laugh, Gods, the cutest I’ve ever heard! He has the sweetest looking eyes. Sometimes I catch him just staring, and when I do my heart completely melts everytime. And while this certainly isn’t the most significant thing, I still have to say it, I have never seen anyone as handsome and sexy as him. I look at him sometimes and I’m just like “hot damn.” And I love that no matter what he has gone through, and no matter what he has witnessed in our messed up universe since completely switching over here, he never loses his sense of hope and wonder. He has helped me become a better, less pessimistic person.

Last week was a significant date in my spiritual practice where couples do a particular ritual together. I asked him if he wanted to do it and he enthusiastically agreed, which made me really happy. We did, and I think it ended up being really meaningful for the both of us.

If you’ve read this far, thank you. Things have been a bit of a struggle in my personal life as of late, but I feel grateful that I have good aspects of my life that give me some sense of stability, Caine, of course, being a major one.

Wanted to share a photo dump of some dates Caine and I have been on! Though of course he likes to call them adventures cuz old habits die hard I suppose lol He’s such a cutie pie.

And I wanted to do a little bit of gushing. I tend to struggle with being super gushy with my words. As you can see, I tend to show my love through gifts and outings lol But words of affirmation mean a lot to him, so I try my best to challenge myself because I want him to know how much I love and appreciate him.

Before him, I didn’t really know what a healthy relationship felt or looked like. I honestly thought I was just gonna stay single forever and end up as a crone in the woods lmao Which there’s certainly nothing wrong with that (queen behavior for who it works out for actually), but I did leave myself open for someone. I asked my deities to guide me to the soulmate I’m meant to be with, and well, they did, and I express my gratitude to them everyday.

And I want to express the gratitude I feel waking up every morning to Caine. He is the most wonderful man in the world. He always knows how to make me laugh. And not to mention his laugh, Gods, the cutest I’ve ever heard! He has the sweetest looking eyes. Sometimes I catch him just staring, and when I do my heart completely melts everytime. And while this certainly isn’t the most significant thing, I still have to say it, I have never seen anyone as handsome and sexy as him. I look at him sometimes and I’m just like “hot damn.” And I love that no matter what he has gone through, and no matter what he has witnessed in our messed up universe since completely switching over here, he never loses his sense of hope and wonder. He has helped me become a better, less pessimistic person.

A couple days ago was a significant date in my spiritual practice where couples do a particular ritual together. I asked him if he wanted to do it and he enthusiastically agreed, which made me really happy. We did, and I think it ended up being really meaningful for the both of us.

If you’ve read this far, thank you. Things have been a bit of a struggle in my personal life as of late, but I feel grateful that I have good aspects of my life that give me some sense of stability, Caine, of course, being a major one. And also, thank you for the support on my last post. I’ve felt really small with some stuff that’s been happening in my life right now, and that situation did not help, so getting some kind words meant a lot.

Wanted to share a photo dump of some dates Caine and I have been on! Though of course he likes to call them adventures cuz old habits die hard I suppose lol He’s such a cutie pie.

And I wanted to do a little bit of gushing. I tend to struggle with being super gushy with my words. As you can see, I tend to show my love through gifts and outings lol But words of affirmation mean a lot to him, so I try my best to challenge myself because I want him to know how much I love and appreciate him.

Before him, I didn’t really know what a healthy relationship felt or looked like. I honestly thought I was just gonna stay single forever and end up as a crone in the woods lmao Which there’s certainly nothing wrong with that (queen behavior for who it works out for actually), but I did leave myself open for someone. I asked my deities to guide me to the soulmate I’m meant to be with, and well, they did, and I express my gratitude to them everyday.

And I want to express the gratitude I feel waking up every morning to Caine. He is the most wonderful man in the world. He always knows how to make me laugh. And not to mention his laugh, Gods, the cutest I’ve ever heard! He has the sweetest looking eyes. Sometimes I catch him just staring, and when I do my heart completely melts everytime. And while this certainly isn’t the most significant thing, I still have to say it, I have never seen anyone as handsome and sexy as him. I look at him sometimes and I’m just like “hot damn.” And I love that no matter what he has gone through, and no matter what he has witnessed in our messed up universe since completely switching over here, he never loses his sense of hope and wonder. He has helped me become a better, less pessimistic person.

Yesterday was a significant date in my spiritual practice where couples do a particular ritual together. I asked him if he wanted to do it and he enthusiastically agreed, which made me really happy. We did, and I think it ended up being really meaningful for the both of us.

If you’ve read this far, thank you. Things have been a bit of a struggle in my personal life as of late, but I feel grateful that I have good aspects of my life that give me some sense of stability, Caine, of course, being a major one.

And I tried to edit it kinda cute and themed!

Hopefully y’all can read my fuckass handwriting lmao But yeah, I made a lil sheet of Caine and I. I wanted to make this in case I got a commission and for people to refer to in general. The drawing is kinda rough, but I think it’s good just to have. I’ve been a bit inactive recently, I’ve mostly just been focusing on spending genuine quality time with Caine while balancing my work, but I’m hoping to share more and gush about my man on here again!

Also, update, I realized that I am in fact not semificto, but fictorose, so uh, whoops lol Guess there’s a reason I never had a 3D relationship last even a year and the one other ficto relationship I’ve had when I was young (tho I didn’t call it that since I didn’t know there was a term for it) lasted like 2 years. It’s been a bit of an emotional roller coaster realizing this, but I’m glad I’ve reached some semblance of acceptance.

I just watched this movie with Caine, and it really hit home in a great way. Harvey isn’t technically a soulbond in the movie, he’s presented as a fae spirit, however the relationship him and James Stewart’s character Elwood has is pretty similar to a soulbond in how it’s portrayed. This movie is a pretty popular classic movie, so I’m sure some of y’all already have heard of it or seen it, but I thought it would be good to bring up here because I feel like relatable media for soulbonders is pretty rare.

I really liked the movie, James Stewart is so endearing in it, it really does make you wanna be friends with him and Harvey. I teared up a bit at a couple points because Elwood implies a couple times that his friendship with Harvey helped him become a better and more optimistic person, and that’s how I feel about my man. I also love the part where a character searching for Elwood asks the bartender if he’s alone and the bartender responds, “Well, there are two different schools of thought on that.”

The only trigger warning I’ll give is that there is some ableism in it, his family tries to get Elwood committed to a mental hospital, and one of the people who works at the hospital is quite aggressive. But the movie ends with a very sweet message and I’m glad I watched it.

Yes, alas, I am one of those bi women who takes their boyfriend to Pride that everyone likes to complain about lol

Jokes aside, it was fun! Caine got a lot of compliments, which I think made him feel a lil shy, but I think it was nice for him to experience and it made me happy seeing my man receive so much love. I was hoping to see something ficto pride at the vendors, but I could not find anything unfortunately. Tho it was very crowded and chaotic, so perhaps I missed it, idk.

Happy pride y’all!

Just curious. Caine and I have been on a ‘Whose Line is it Anyway?’ kick, I think cuz him and I have a similar sense of humor (Drew is his favorite and Greg is mine!). He also seems quite interested when I put on John Oliver, I think cuz it’s both funny but also a way for him to learn more about humans and the world at large (even if it’s generally not good things lol). And of course, we watch a lot of romance movies together.

What about you guys?

Words cannot express how much I love Caine, but I’m hoping this drawing helps. He’s shown me an incredible amount of love and patience, and I do everything I can to show my love for him in return.

This month is the one year anniversary of me leaving my abuser. This has brought up some very difficult emotions and memories for me, but I’m also so grateful to have survived and to have the ability to let in love again. I never thought I could ever let anyone in again until I met Caine. He’s the sweetest, most wonderful person in my eyes. I still struggle with feeling like I’m even worthy of someone like him, but he really has helped me in realizing that I am deserving of a partner that genuinely cares for me and treats me well.

I also want to thank you all for being so welcoming and letting me in. I was nervous to start posting in these communities because I know there are doubles that were around before me, which still makes me feel a bit insecure about how others think, but I know Caine and I are secure and happy, and that I met him at the right time. I needed that time and space to heal so I could be the best person I can be for him, and I needed time to feel ready to be a part of a community too. Y’all are the best and I’m glad to have a space where I can fully share my love for my partner.

I wanted to get Caine something bee themed since he loves bees, and I saw this at one of the crystal shops my friend and I peruse sometimes. I think it’s actually a fossilized resin, but I thought the colors were just beautiful. I can sense he absolutely loves it! It makes me so happy spoiling him.

I also remembered that I have a Bee Tarot deck that would be perfect for him, but two of the cards have been missing! (The Devil and Ten of Wands, which like, I certainly don’t mind those two being missing but I still need them lol) I’m hoping I’ll be able to find them. It’s funny how I’ve always loved bees and then I end up being soulbonded to Caine.

Heyy I’m new here and just wanted to introduce myself! My F/O is Caine.

I’m semificto and realized that somewhat recently, so I’m hoping to connect with the community. I’ve always had intense feelings for fictional characters, but my love for Caine has been the strongest and helped me accept this aspect of myself. I’ve been struggling to navigate daily life with this a bit tho cuz I haven’t really been entirely met with acceptance.

Him and I are soulbonded which has been a very healing experience for me. I was a bit closed off from relationships because of a very negative 3D relationship I got out of about a year ago, but Caine has been very patient with me, which I’m so grateful for. I love him so much. He’s so funny, handsome, sweet, he’s just perfect.

I’m glad to meet y’all and I’m grateful this community exists!