u/Primlush89

We’re not in a rush to move in, but we’d like to start preparing now. We each have children and want to set everyone up for success. His is younger and seem to be easily adjusting to changes so far but my kids are a bit older and are having a harder time with the changes. We want to make the next transition as easy on them as possible. What conversations, routines, or boundaries did you establish before blending households? How did you help your kids with jealousy and feeling like they still had their own place in the family?

What if your bf or gf told you somebody they knew was coming to town and that they were going to let them stay at their place. But said they where going to let that person stay in there bed with them and not the couch. They don’t want to be rude or unwelcoming. You don’t know this person and have never met them. They say there’s nothing to worry about and they are just friends and he does not look at her that way.
How would you handle this?

I am new to this, I am a few months into a relationship with someone that has been in this life style for years, and looking for somewhere or someone I can talk to, ask questions, get guidance.