u/Pristine_Log_1191

Hi wondering if anyone knows the tutor I'm referring to without mentioning their name/identity for privacy so please maintain this if you comment. Should I make an anonymous complaint?

This tutor has been very moody, rejects answering questions in a pretty rude way. Has made humiliated students in front of the entire class for 'not knowing' content, or not paying attention for pracs, despite rushing through information. One time they humiliated a student by telling them to leave because they were simply coughing, and went full-on into a 'I have a right to feel safe in my workplace under the law, and so if you are sick please leave' with this very condescending tone. I'm sorry, can students not clear their throat in your class?

Of course, I have no idea about their personal life, or what their job stress is like and that's probably the main driver here, but feel like all students should feel really comfortable asking questions and not feel intimidated into acting a certain way.

When this tutor is not being micro-aggressive, they are very knowledgeable and have lots of valuable experience to share, so I don't want to ensure consequences nor do I want to have to share my feedback to them in person, so whatever I do it would be anonymous.

I have already put feedback in the student survey but wondering if I should take this further... I don't think they should be disciplined for this, maybe just provided some training and clarification on what is/isn't socially appropriate and emotionally regulating themselves when interacting with, yes at times naive students, but ultimately students who just want to learn...

I do believe in manifesting and I believe that even 'impossible' can be possible.

On and off over the past six years I have attempted to manifest contact from my first love. Not to get him back, but because I want closure that the relationship did mean something to him as it did to me. I have this closure within me, for myself, and don't need this to know I did mean something. But I would really like to hear it from him too, I would find this very satisfying.

The circumstances in the 3D are quite literally seeming like I will not get the contact I assume. He is in a relationship, we don't follow each other on social media, it's been so long now, and I don't even have his phone number.

My methods are simply affirming constantly when it crosses my mind that he still thinks of me and texts me exactly what I want to hear. He's reaching out to me, he's texting me. I visualise this frequently because its enjoyable, I dream about it etc. I listen to subliminals and visualise/affirm, I meditate. I have had a lot of success with these methods for other things (can expand another time :) but, I have a very busy life and schedule and am not able to devote much of my mental space to this. Manifesting random experiences is my hobby and I don't like methods that require obsessive thinking about something at the expense of my mental energy.

Any recommendations or advice is appreciated :)

Been together for 5 years and I have always been a jealous type. Not controlling his behaviour or obsessively asking where or who he's with, I just always felt jealous at the smallest sign that someone else might be interested and I was a ittle mentally obsessive over it. This was always extra clarification to me that I really care about him, our relationship and love him a lot.

The other day he went out with his friends and came home and told me a girl was flirting with him, trying to hold his hand and getting close, and he didn't know how to reject her so kind of hid behind his friends. I asked him a few questions, he said he did find her attractive but he felt no inclination to do anything, felt awkward, and was a little bit flattered by the attention.

This is definitely the most explicitly someone has hit on him that I know of as we usually go out together and people don't approach us if we are clearly together romantically ofc.

I felt nothing. Just curiousity on how he felt. No jealousy, no passion, no insecurity. Does this mean I am growing/less insecure, more trusting? Or could it show my indifference?