u/PrivyPaul

Since this should be a question. I tried dating getting Girls Numbers Instagram all that, i only can say i never saw reasons to block people but more and more i block people that waste my time for god knows what. Why match on tinder and literally some only do it to get Instagram followers and will Message a Bit and then stop, 2 weeks later they unfollow you so their Ratio is better. You are not imagining it. And Overall im done now with dating, putting in effort for nothing, at Best a narcassistic women that cheats on you if you are Lucky. And in real life it’s still the fucking same. Im Not “red pilled” i never had a problem with women but with todays standards im JUST DONE. Am i the only one or is this a pattern especially around 25-30?

Like in the beginning of the Movie i thought yeah that was me, shy, just wanting my EX, but there comes a stark difference, she love bombed me for months, i honestly tried to be there for her always. She put me through hot and cold after the lovebombing, one day in love the next she was gone for sometimes weeks or broke up with me to then go back couple days or weeks later, i was the only one in the relationship trying to make it work and i can’t recall a moment when she did anything for me other the bare Minimum in a relationship, in the end alot if Manipulation and lying and i just tried to talk with her what’s going on cause i didn’t understand it, she said she can’t give me what i want yet stayed came back or we texted all the time. I First thought she was a FA so i had patience but i don’t think her behavior was anything other than cruel at times.

Since this Movie is exploding on Social Media, i know i will be framed as just that guy just because im also shy and wanted it to work. Like the First 8 month or so we’re Perfect on Both sides. I think now more and more from what happened she might be a narcissist. And seeing that movie hurts cause i know my friends and her Friends will Watch it… i don’t think most people understand it right. I had to turn it off cause it hurt so much. Idk if anyone else had the same.
This confirms for alot of women that the “nice guy” isn’t actually nice which isn’t true, everyone’s different. I really gave everything for that woman. And i think you can imagine what happened over time.