u/ProfessionalDare6181

does uoft clinic help with these sorts of stuff? Long story short, i went to the utm clinic and they had a record of the bruises and all the abuse everything and this was a month ago.

I want to request for a parental enstragement form, do you think they can provide this for me?? Are they going to refuse?? Like theres a whole record for it too, does it cost money for a form?? I need help and guidance please im trying to move out by august

i ordered a new debit card cus the other one got lost in the mail, and when i opened the bank account to check the status for it, it doesnt show anymore theres no active debit card being shown

does anyone know why? i ordered it yesterday

if youre reading this, yeah u read the title right.. Obviously im not outting him or putting him down I love him a lot. But this was just really unexpected.

Im f(18) and hes m(18) almost 19, anyways we were having sex and as we are he obviously we both finished and he wanted to go for it again but he couldn't he wasn't yk able to and i told him it was ok and he got embarrassed. We waited for a while and he still couldn't, i wasnt embarrassed for him or upset at him but i guess he felt upset he couldn't get to please me or feel "man" enough if that makes sense.

anyways yeah as hes trying to do it, he stops and then i just hold him in my arms and hes silent like really silent, hes not laughing or saying a word so i just held his face up and he was crying, he was literally crying on me and i was shocked because this was the first time i had ever seen him cry (ive known him for about almost 4 month by now), and he is NEVER like this, hes pretty non chalant, and he was crying on me for about a hour and the reason he was crying was because he said he didn't feel enough for me, and he felt bad he couldn't protect me most of time and he just loved me so much that he was just so overwhelmed with this much emotions (plus university and stress)

he also felt embarrassed he wasn't able to get hard too, so he was overloaded with everything and just let it out he hadn't cry in years too.. And i just held him down and comforted him the entire time he just wasnt able to stop crying and im not sure if any woman has been through this but it just made me love him more he was able to express his vulnerablity to me because usually its me who cries or expresses but he like cried a lot and to be fair he is a very beautiful crier lol

anyways im not sure how to feel about this and i dont wanna tell my friends because i feel like they don't understand and i feel like im having a hard time processing this (not because he cried it was just a shock to me to see him very vulerable like that)

i had done sex with condoms, he didnt come or anything.

took a pregnancy test yesterday (cus im a week late) and im unsure what to do, i dont know what it could possibly be even tho im not pregnant...