u/Professional_Egg9157

m in college and I barely have any friends. I don’t have anyone calling me, texting me, or anything. Everyone around me has so many friends. The friends that I do have are all much closer with each other, while I just can’t get close. I have social anxiety and terrible social skills and am quiet. When I do try to put myself out there and talk people just look at me like I’m crazy cause I never say the right thing. I don’t even know what to do. My friends can become close with anyone in just a month but even after years I just can’t close to people. I such at talking and conversing and no one tries to talk to me. My friends always talk to each other and are so close. I always find out what’s going on at the last minute. Everyone has their own inside jokes and stuff that I’m not part of. Everyone I come across just does not like me like I’m so off putting. My social skills are so bad that I just never know what to say like I can’t think of anything. I wanted to make a lot of friends and have fun in college but it’s just not happening. My personality is so bad too and unlikeable. Also I’m into a guy who doesn’t even want me cause I’m ugly too. Being ugly is ruining my life. No guy wants me because of my looks. I just hate everything about me. I don’t know how to change this. I already feel like it’s too late to make friends in college but I still have a little hope left. What can I do to change??

m in college and I barely have any friends. I don’t have anyone calling me, texting me, or anything. Everyone around me has so many friends. The friends that I do have are all much closer with each other, while I just can’t get close. I have social anxiety and terrible social skills and am quiet. When I do try to put myself out there and talk people just look at me like I’m crazy cause I never say the right thing. I don’t even know what to do. My friends can become close with anyone in just a month but even after years I just can’t close to people. I such at talking and conversing and no one tries to talk to me. My friends always talk to each other and are so close. I always find out what’s going on at the last minute. Everyone has their own inside jokes and stuff that I’m not part of. Everyone I come across just does not like me like I’m so off putting. My social skills are so bad that I just never know what to say like I can’t think of anything. I wanted to make a lot of friends and have fun in college but it’s just not happening. My personality is so bad too and unlikeable. Also I’m into a guy who doesn’t even want me cause I’m ugly too. Being ugly is ruining my life. No guy wants me because of my looks. I just hate everything about me. I don’t know how to change this. I already feel like it’s too late to make friends in college but I still have a little hope left. What can I do to change??

I’m in college and I barely have any friends. I don’t have anyone calling me, texting me, or anything. Everyone around me has so many friends. The friends that I do have are all much closer with each other, while I just can’t get close. I have social anxiety and terrible social skills and am quiet. When I do try to put myself out there and talk people just look at me like I’m crazy cause I never say the right thing. I don’t even know what to do. My friends can become close with anyone in just a month but even after years I just can’t close to people. I such at talking and conversing and no one tries to talk to me. My friends always talk to each other and are so close. I always find out what’s going on at the last minute. Everyone has their own inside jokes and stuff that I’m not part of. Everyone I come across just does not like me like I’m so off putting. My social skills are so bad that I just never know what to say like I can’t think of anything. I wanted to make a lot of friends and have fun in college but it’s just not happening. My personality is so bad too and unlikeable. Also I’m into a guy who doesn’t even want me cause I’m ugly too. Being ugly is ruining my life. No guy wants me because of my looks. I just hate everything about me. I don’t know how to change this. I already feel like it’s too late to make friends in college but I still have a little hope left. What can I do to change??

I’m friends with this girl that literally everyone wants. Everyone loves her like genuinely everyone. Everyone talks so positively about her and talks about how funny and kind she is. She’s also very pretty and everyone just automatically feels so comfortable with her. She’s very bubbly, extroverted, and charismatic. Every guy and girl is in love with her. Like I don’t even understand how someone can be so perfect in every way possible. All the guys that we are friends with only text her and call her and just are so comfortable with her. Like I feel kind of jealous because I’m so awkward and weird and never get any sort of attention. All the attention is always on her wherever we go. Every conversation is only about her. I wish I could get that much attention and love.

Is social anxiety curable?? Some people are saying that it is and others are saying that it's only manageable. I really don't want to live this way forever. Social anxiety has been ruining my life and mental health.

For the business frats at msu what happens during rush days. What kind of questions and stuff do they ask at like dsp. Can someone please let me know fast.

I'm dorming with my friend this year and I'm scared that this will negatively affect the friendship. I'm oftentimes quiet and need my own space and just don't feel like talking all the time, but they always talk. I just don't want them to be annoyed and be bored of me. I don't want us to hate each other after cause they are like the only friend that I really have. What should I do.

No matter what I do no one likes me. I am very quiet and shy, but whenever I try to talk to anyone they just ignore me or don't even look at me. I genuinely don't know what I'm doing wrong. Like I don't know if it's just something about my vibes or energy because I have social anxiety. It makes me feel even more depressed and makes me hate myself even more when no one even tries to talk to me. When I went to a party recently no one approached me and when I tried talking to people they just ignored me. I don't even know if it's because I'm ugly or something either. My social skills are also not that great either but yeah. Like ever since middle school it has been like this and I'm in college now. I'm literally a human repellent. Everyone just hates me and doesn't care. I genuinely don't know what to do anymore. Please help. And I am so forgettable too. Like people genuinely don't remeber me and always forget who I am. Even people that I have hung out with a few times don't even remeber me and don't feel comfortable with and don't see me as part of the "group".

I have this one friend who everyone likes a lot, but except for me. Like for some reason I just find them so annoying and don't find the appeal of them. I genuinely feel like I'm the problem but I just can't stop feeling this way. They do very annoying stuff, which for some reason no one else minds. How do I feel less annoyed? I don't understand how I'm the only one getting annoyed by them!!

I actually don’t know what to do. I’m so socially awkward and anxious and just don’t ever know what to say or how to respond in conversations. Everyone I’m around knows exactly what to say and what to do except me. I never know what to say in conversations and never know how to respond either. I literally stood there like an idiot and said nothing when someone I knew said, “What’s up?” to me. I always stutter too and can’t even say my words properly anymore. I’m 19, and it’s so hard to make friends and be likable because I’m so socially awkward and have terrible social skills. All my “friends” are close to each other, and I’m just the side friend. No one texts me, calls me, or anything. I’m so awkward and my social skills are so bad that people literally get weird vibes from me and just leave. I just don’t know what to do. I feel like there is no way that I can be fixed. It’s affecting me when I work too. I’m so awkward, and my coworkers definitely think I’m weird. Even if I want to start a convo and want to get to know them, I just don’t know what to say. It’s actually so bad.

Whenever I eat food, especially food that tastes good, I bring it back up and swallow it again so I can taste it again. I do this on purpose, and I’ve had this habit since I was a kid. I don't understand if this is rumination syndrome or just like a habit that I have.

I ended up with a 3.7 overall cumulative gpa for freshman year, but I got a 2.5 in one of the required classes that I need to take in order to get into broad. Do I still have a chance to get in??