37F [F4F] | WlW | Cape Town
37F. Cis woman. Lesbian (NO MEN please). Chapstick lesbian and can switch to femme. Working remotely. Travelled a lot in my life and now living in Western Cape. I have been told that I look younger than I am.
After overworking for the last 6 years, I attended a retreat overseas earlier this year and I’m now taking it easy this year living close to the beach where I’m focusing on my health, doing what I want and leaving all worries for next year.
A lover of markets, the sun, beach, slow living and staying healthy so I don’t fall and can’t get back up.
I consider myself grounded, funny and do not take myself too seriously. I have put in a lot of work to create a safe and secure environment for myself and you can be soft with me. While I like to lead, I am a complete golden retriever outside of the bedroom and anyone would be able to see my devotion to you. Inside of it, I’m dominant.
Communication, consistency and consideration are foundational to me. I value openness, intelligence as well as emotional intelligence, empathy, loyalty and effort.
I melt for brunettes and blondes who are able to navigate through tough conversations, have self-awareness and are willing to repair after conflict or a miscommunication.
Child free by choice so I’m looking for same.
I don’t smoke nor drink - simply a preference as I don’t like the taste so these are not dealbreakers.
I work at a start up (not AI). You should be financially stable as well.
I have a small loyal circle of friends and I think the world of them.
Ideally, you are more femme and submissive and share the same values as I do.
Please be out - I won’t date someone who is in the closet.
At the end of the day, I’d love to knock off and have you in my arms where we check-in with each other, ask how we are both doing and have that sigh that the life I have built is one of peace with you.
To prevent scammers, men pretending to be women and catfish, please send a photo of yourself in your DM and we can verify (I have Discord as well).
I look forward to hearing from you.