u/Proper_Protection781

I just finished college and got back home, so I’m thinking of giving my room a new look.
I don’t have the full budget right now, but I earn around 90k a month, so I’ll be buying things gradually. My total budget is around 1.5 lakh.
I’m really inspired by the orange and warm white lighting in different parts of rooms which I’ve seen in YouTube videos, they look super beautiful and cozy. I’d love to recreate that kind of vibe in my room.
I’m aiming for a simple, clean, and aesthetic setup with warm lighting. I like the cozy feel created with table lamps, floor lamps, photo frames, wall art, plants, and other small decor pieces.
I’d love some ideas or inspiration for things I should buy and how to make the room look nice without overdoing it. If you’ve done something similar, feel free to share pictures or recommendations.

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua So what happened is me, my flatmate (who has been one of my closest friends for 5 years), and a female friend from college went out for drinks. We're all in our final year, and since everyone will soon be moving away for jobs or further studies, we wanted to have one last fun night together.

We went to a BYOB place and shared a 750ml bottle of whiskey between the three of us. We all drank roughly the same amount. I don't drink much, only occasionally, but I was completely fine. My flatmate was also pretty normal.

However, my female friend got extremely drunk.

What shocked me was her behavior toward my flatmate. She's known me for 3 years, but she's only met him 2–3 times in her life, and they barely talk. In fact, she's usually very reserved around men and only has a couple of male friends, including me.

During the car ride, she started hugging him repeatedly, kissing him on the cheeks, trying to stick close to him, and saying she wanted to kiss someone. My flatmate was visibly uncomfortable and kept moving away from her the whole time. At one point she even started saying things like, "You boys only want sex," and "Boys are so creepy," while she was literally the one making unwanted physical advances.

She also randomly accused me of things involving an old female friend of mine and called us "playboys," despite knowing nothing about that situation.

When we got back to our flat around 4 AM (about 4 hours after we had finished drinking), things got even weirder.

I have a single bed, while my flatmate has a double bed. I told her to sleep in my room and that I'd sleep in my flatmate's room. She refused and said she wasn't sleepy. A few minutes later, she went and lay down on my flatmate's bed instead. My flatmate told me that you should sleep in the other room because he wasn't going to sleep yet and would stay on the sofa.

Earlier she had also literally laid her head on his lap while he was sitting on the sofa.

The next morning around 8 AM, my flatmate woke me up and said, "Let's wake her up. I need to sleep." We woke her, asked her to move to the other room, and then both of us went back to sleep.

Honestly, my flatmate handled the whole situation really respectfully. He never encouraged anything and spent the entire night trying to create distance.

What I can't figure out is whether this was genuinely alcohol making her act completely out of character or whether she wanted to do these things and felt being drunk would give her an excuse. I've known her for 3 years and have never seen anything remotely like this.

Now I'm seriously questioning the friendship because if the genders were reversed, everyone would immediately call this creepy behavior.

Am I overreacting for wanting to distance myself from her after this?

TL;DR: Female friend got extremely drunk during a night out, repeatedly made unwanted physical advances toward my flatmate (hugging, kissing, lying on his lap, trying to sleep in his bed) despite him clearly being uncomfortable and moving away. She also kept saying men are creepy while being the one acting inappropriately. Now I'm questioning whether I should continue the friendship.

Need some crazy ideas

How much should alcohol excuse behavior like this?

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