Am I the jerk for going out with someone my friend used to like ?

So basically, my friend and I are juniors in highschool. I transferred to their area freshman year, so I never went to middle school with my friend or my boyfriend. Back in middle school, my friend and my boyfriend used to talk (basically that courting stage before a relationship for anyone wondering). When they were talking, my boyfriend did her really dirty. I can’t really remember the details of what he did, but I know that it ended the talking stage and made her really upset, so upset that she hated him from the latter half of 8th grade to early 9th grade.

Later, they ended up clearing it up and being civil with each other. My friend told me the story of their past during freshman year, but by sophomore year, I ended up forgetting all about the story. Sophomore year, me and my boyfriend had the same class and sat right across from each other. We talked everyday and he used to give me candy and other things and I thought he was cute! So by the end of the school year, we ended up talking and then started dating.

Because they were civil now, I thought she was completely over it and didn’t care about him anymore. But when I told her about it, she got really upset at me and asked if I had forgotten what she told me about their past. I felt really bad, but it felt like a long time had passed since their “relationship”. I’ve never treated talking stages as anything serious enough to qualify as an actual relationship or a “past.” He already apologized and they’re civil now and it was 3 years ago! I love her to death so I told her I was sorry, but she’s been acting shady towards me ever since..

tldr: my close friends upset about me over an “ex?”

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u/Queen_Lollipop — 15 days ago

Something I hate about reincarnation manhwa

How come when a character remembers their past life, they’re no longer that character anymore? they separate that character and themself as if they had not been living according to that characters life for 5+ years? is really irritating when they do that because with how past lives work, your current life is the most important. there’s no point to thinking about the person you WERE. its so irritating.. They’ll be like (insert characters was such a fool.. instead of I was such a fool back then. idk if anyone else feels this way but it’s just really annoying to me.

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u/Queen_Lollipop — 1 month ago

Two weeks ago I said I hated Ogata… there’s been a change

Some how by the time I finished the series, he became so endearing to me like I genuinely love him now.I still wanna peel his skin off but like in a loving way… like ever since his last scene in the manga where he yk.. yea ive loved him. you guys were lying at all when you said i was on the path to loving him 💔 hes just a cutie

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u/Queen_Lollipop — 1 month ago

is tsurumi really a groomer?

even before I started the anime, I kept seeing the joke that he's a groomer and that he "outdoes your favorite groomer" and even another one that said "greatest groomer in history (tsurumi) and greatest groomer of today (makima). but is he actually a groomer? I have seen anything like that at all.. and I'm on episode 36.

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u/Queen_Lollipop — 2 months ago

WHY DO PEOPLE LIKE OGATA???

I just started the anime kinda and I'm on episode 24 THIS NGA IS LAME HES LAME WHY WOULD HE DO THIS J CANT STAND HIM WHY WOULD HE RUIN EVERYTHING I WANY TO BURY HIM 6 FEET UNDER AND SPIT IN HIS GRAVE ABD HES LITERALY UGLY TOO

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u/Queen_Lollipop — 2 months ago