u/QueerChicken

Sorry but I just want to rant about what happened to me last night.

So I get out of the shower and go to my bedroom, and I get on my phone, and I realize that someone had been on it. It wasn't at the same spot I put it, and the app that I was on was on a different page than I remember. My dad walks in shortly afterwards, closes the door and says something like, "what does queer mean" so I who has not yet came out to him and don't plan on doing so says something like "idk what it means" he then asks me what QueerChicken means and i once again say idk. He then says why did you pick it as your YouTube name blah blah blah. I tell him that I thought it sounded cool. He then asks me if it's gay stuff. Near the end of the conversation he says something like I thought that you might still be like that, while also saying something about a convo that I had with him a few years back. That convo was a redefining moment of my childhood.

For some context, I came out to him in the 6th grade, he told me that I couldn't be bi, because I had not been sexually assaulted, I no longer trust this man, he sees me as a cis straight male, I am a bisexual genderfluid person.

So yesterday night he, 1, looked through my phone without asking or telling me, 2 casually asked about my sexuality, and 3 casually mentioned a memory that I think about almost daily and am still very very pissed off about.

And thank you for listening to me rant, and if anyone wants to tell me something like that that happened to them I would be more than happy to hear and help out. Also if someone wants to give me some advice I would love to hear it.

I'm just wondering what people have and enjoy which version of the anime, personally I have only watched the dubbed version.

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So I am 14 and genderfluid/bi but the events I will be talking about is when I was 12 and bi (not genderfluid yet, but a boy nonetheless)

So I came out to my dad as bisexual and he took it, terribly? Basically he told me that I couldn't be bi because I didn't find any boys at the moment attractive (this makes no sense and he should have done some research) and he told me that I couldn't be bi because I have never been SEXUALLY ASSAULTED. I have no idea where he got the idea that bi, gays etc. had to be sexually assaulted to become bi, gay etc. and I have never been sexually assaulted.

I no longer trust my dad as much, and I basically went back in the closet with him (by that I mean, he thinks I'm straight) but I don't think that I will be able to trust him, with much stuff, and it's been 2 years since that happened and I still think about it a lot and it has scarred me.

What should I do, should I learn to trust him? I'm just confused and he gets mad at me for not liking him as much yet he did it to himself. And if this means anything towards this (idk if it will, but it might) we are both Mormon. I don't think that I'll ever be able to forgive him tho.