u/Radiant-Repair3525

Whenever anyone tells me they're virgins, I'm usually skeptical about meeting them. As much as it's a physical act, a lot of mental dynamics are usually involved as well.

I do top most times, but I've bottomed before, I remember the first time I bottomed, bruv that shit was painful AF😂💔. I never talked to the guy who dealt with this ass for the first time, I ended up resenting him. Idk why. I also remember getting home and being like, "i'm done with this gay shit," jokes on me😂...8 years later, nimenawiri aisee!😂

So recently, I met up with this friend of mine, we've known each other for like 3 years, you know how Nairobi is just crazy, our schedules used to clash, and we had not met for the longer part of that period. We finally met, and shit went down. His booty was a virgin!

After realising he was a virgin, kidogo nivae suruali nirudi home. I'm just not a good teacher, and that process requires a lot of patience. I don't want to be hated as well😂. He talked me through it and how he was finally ready to take D, and yeah, shit was a struggle. He was tight! Great sesh in general.

Took me about 10 minutes for it to be in. Well, he was a good student, he relaxed his muscles properly but yoh, I was terrified for a minute. Yeah, so... he doesn't hate me. It's such a relief!

The skepticism still lingers, though😊

Another thing, if you've never taken dick before, say that... idk why people feel like they're supposed to be pros or whatever. There's no trophy here, guys. Communicate so that your guy will know how to deal with you.

The boundaries between African countries never sit right with me. A white person finds it easier to traverse the continent than an African. Just because we have imaginary lines called boundaries created during the colonial era when we had scramble and partition.

So said, the same colonial countries that were scrambling for Africa don't have boundaries between their countries.

We can try blaming the language and say, well... we don't speak the same language as Africans, and having a borderless continent is pointless. The schengen countries don't speak the same language as well. So what's the excuse for Africans??

I also saw what Macron did yesterday, and wow, I like his guts or what is entitlement? Try imagining an African president trying to do that in Europe. The whole world would go crazy.

The leaders we have are a mess anyway. The brave ones that tried unifying Africa, all kaput, ni mbaya😅💔

Anywho, I'm hoping for better times ahead!

I do think that the Black South Africans have a serious identity crisis, and it's finally showing. How can you be angry at your fellow black African brother for simply having a business in SA?

A small business at that. The whites over there have large tracts of land stolen from their ancestors, but their anger is always misplaced. Weird times we're living in.

To some extent, I can understand them, though. White folks have a way of brainwashing people.

After the recent winnie Mandela documentary, that's when a lot of people, South Africans, realised that Nelson sold them out.

I stand to be corrected on this, but when a black person is labelled as a hero by colonisers, there's a problem somewhere. Robert Mugabe is never going to be a hero in history books. Even in Kenya, the maumau will never get the credit they deserve.

Anywho, you ditch your wife immediately you're out of prison, the same wife that was in the streets fighting for you to be released and also fighting towards the end of apartheid, then become a sympathiser of the same people that imprisoned you. The math ain't mathing.

In the meantime, as much as I had planned a vacation to CPT, hiyo pesa itabidi itumiwe somewhere else coz what the helly. Mnasaidia watu kukua free from the shackles of colonisers halafu wanawaua, eh...noma!!

As a gay guy, one thing I've realised is that a lot of straight guys or guys that purport to be straight can bend the rules for a feminine gay guy.

In their mind, they'll be like, but he's feminine and therefore harmless to me😅😅😅

What they forget is that, even the feminine dudes have dicks. Unaeza kua uko hapo ukibrag venye umebag a cute sexy feminine dude and you're now ready to "try"

Most guys are curious nowadays😅😅

Anywho, mnapatana, and you're like, I'm finally smashing some man butt😅... mid session, Boyz anakugeuza unatii😅

And your prostate is massaged and you end up liking something you thought you'd never like. A win for the who??😅😅

Anywho, that's life, I guess😅