u/RakeChapman13

I say an anxious attached man. They are more dangerous to women. The heart ache of dealing with emotionally unavailability is not as bad as dealing with a more intrusive and emotionally violative man who is much physically stronger than you. When avoidant men are stressed in their relationship they are more likely pull away and distance themselves where as an anxious attached man is more likely to engage in more problematic and threatening mate guarding behavior.