u/Rare-Distance-9872

My wife and I have been married 46 years - we have been monogamous for most of those years though I had shared with her that I always fantasized about her having sex with others. I didn't bug her or torture her over it I just shared it with her. Its been my fantasy forever -

Out of the blue ( there was a motive on her part but its not worth going into here ) she said she's ready to give it a go - she did and its been wonderful for the two of us - especially her.

Now we're at the point of her wanting to find a new fuck buddy - she's not going to go on to online sites, or pick up a guy in a bar - she's have it happen in her yoga group or pickleball group or some other natural place where she can feel comfortable that he's an ok low risk man

Wondering if others in our age group have experienced this same treat - She's in her early 70's - still gorgeous believe me - she's always stayed out of the sun so her skin is wonderful, she's fit and she loves sex always has - now she can share it and I too can enjoy her bringing it home to me. Love to hear from other men or women in our same or similar place -

My wife L and I have been happily married a long long time, we've built an incredible life for the two of us with three amazing children all living on their own in distant cities.

For our story - I had the recurring fantasy ever since we first met and began dating about L having sex with others. We saw one another for a long time as friends as I had recently come off an ugly divorce and was determined to not become serious with anyone.

During that time L continued to date others as I'd not given her any indication that I was serious about our getting serious. All during that time I had these recurring fantasies about her having sex with these guys.

We continued to see one another for several years. periodically having lunch or meeting for a drink but nothing more. Finally it became obvious to me that I was falling in love with her. I knew she was attracted to me though she continued dating other guys all during this time. One Saturday morning I was at her apartment and one thing led to another and we had incredible sex - I had never had an experience with another woman like that morning.

Sex was amazing for the two of us and continued to be for the next 40 years - All during that time I had the same fantasy of her fucking other guys.

After being together for almost 5 years we decided to get married, we're still together and very happy and the sex has remained incredible for all these years. Still, I had that fantasy of her fucking others. After a few years I finally had the courage to share my fantasy with her. Mind you L comes from a very conservative background and as worldly as she appeared she was in some ways very naive. When I told her of my fantasy she broke down in tears, saying to me "aren't I enough? " I did my best to share with her my thoughts about this but it fell on deaf ears, though over time knowing of my fantasy she humored me by making up dates with others. This continued for years.

About 4 years ago she came to me one morning and said I/m giving you your wish. I said my wish ? Yes, your wish - I'm ready to have sex with someone. Turns out she had met a guy that we knew socially while playing pickle ball of all things and they became friends. He was a retired veterinarian surgeon and a pretty cool guy. When she told me of her interest in him we decided to meet him together to explain what a "Hotwife" was - he had no clue and was quite blown away - at first he wasn't sure whether we were spoofing him saying I have to think about this - he came back to her and said ok I/m in knowing that I was fully aware and in support of her fucking him. They set up a date for later that week to meet at his place -

It was an amazing ride for the two of us with her seeing him every week or two for about 6 months . It ended when he decide as good as it was he wanted something more "real" knowing this was not going anywhere - they/we have remained good friends and L actually has been with him sexually periodically over the years when he was between girlfriends - but its been more than a couple of years since she's been with him - in the meantime L has told me that she's interested in finding a guy to be with but isn't sure how to go about it - She's dead set against the app and online sites. She isn't up for going to a bar to pick up a stranger. Her main activities are yoga, playing pickleball and dancing at a local winery near our downtown apartment. They host local bands every Friday night which L loves to attend. I am not a fan of the music but I willingly accompany her when she asks but frequently she'll be happy to go alone as she has a host of friends there both single women and couples. She keeps hoping that she'll meet a guy that sparks interest in her that could turn into something - of course so do I -

It's interesting how for all those years of no ! she now is a ok with finding a guy that she's attracted enough to to have sex with - we've talked and laughed about it and find how ironic it is that for all those years of no now she;s fully on board with her being a HW -

Which brings me to today - earlier today J ( the veterinarian from the past ) texted her and asked if she'd like to see his new house - ( mind you L has seen him in the recent past and asked if he'd like to get together etc ) to which he responded he has a girlfriend otherwise he would -) when he texted her this morning she replied yes she'd love to - so here we are -

I/m at home very excited while she's at his house seeing his new home and who know what else - of course it may be a false alarm since the girlfriend might be there but we figure thats not likely - when I asked L if she's ready to fuck him, she said coyly well yes - but I/m nervous - its been a while - she asked me how I/m feeling about it and I said I think its great if you're up for it but I want you to be happy -

So there it is she's at J's house, been there for an hour or so - no clue when she'll be home but I/m ready whenever she gets here - I'll keep you posted