u/Rasberrypinke

I’m born 11th of February 2002. I thought I was the year of the horse and I really resonated with that because I’m so someone who just ploughs forth, never stops, even setbacks I just back up again, I’ve been through a lot but I don’t let it hold me back ever and I don’t wear my “limitations” or bad past experiences on my sleeve. I keep my problems to myself a very close confidantes, I like to just continue moving forward always. I felt so seen!

Turns out year of the horse starts February 12th 2002…. Year of the snake’s last day in 2002 was February 11th. What the hell!

I actually resonate with the snake as well because I’m very spiritual, I’d say I’m very wise, I’m very interested in metaphysical topics and I’m highly intuitive. But idk- am I a bit of both? How about Chinese time zones- I was born in the uk, idk how far ahead or behind that is to china, or if it’d even count. Who is ever born on the cusp wth.

Let me know!!

The discomfort that quitting feels that makes you feel so uncomfortable/ depressed/ in pain and then relapse, is actually the momentum of big change being created, it’s just that initially it’s very uncomfortable and painful, but the extent to which it is painful is actually the extent to which it will be inversely productive and meaningful to you- because this growing momentum makes energetic polarity, which is a big resource of energy that needs some way to be channelled, and if you wait long enough without channeling it through unproductive and ultimately self-deteriorating means, your hand will be forced to channel it towards something good and productive- often the types of things you’ve always told yourself you’d do “one day”- suddenly that one day becomes now, because all of that vigour and vitality that you have swirling and building up within you (which is a particularly strong and beautiful aspect particular to men especially with its massive potential for achievement through its intensity and power-) NEEDS to be channelled, and you’ll be both inspired and almost needing to achieve these things that you’ve told yourself for years you’d do. Once you get there you’ll truly know why porn is such a massive impediment to men, because you will see the difference and it’s like night and day- you’ll unlock such a massive wealth of motivation and vigour within you that’s been natural to you all along but has been kept from yourself because of porn, that you’ll become that person you always have wanted to be. And it’d be so natural to you- it wouldn’t feel like effort, it’d feel like something you must and want to do with that massive vital source that’s within you.

Another massive benefit is that this will make you very attractive to women as well! A man who is deeply inspired and motivated, and has big projects and goals in his life that he does for himself out of an intrinsic sense of cause and meaning, is SO FUGGING ATTRACTIVE to basically every woman alive. And it also would make you a better partner as you’ll be rightfully and naturally sensitive to the real life, completely incomparable to porn, experience of being with a woman in the flesh, who you have come to know and learn, and have a human understanding for, because you’re a long ways out from being constantly desensitised to women as human beings and Clockwork Orange-style brainwashed to see women as brainless receptacles or sex object clone machines that make unrealistic dramatic wailing noises and pose entirely for your fleeting artificial pleasure as a man. And channeling all of your potential sexual energy to just one partner who you love intimately and deeply will not only feel so incredible and meaningful for once (instead of feeling half ashamed and embarrassed alone behind a screen-) you also will be very sensitive and appreciative of her- which is what is natural anyway- and your palpable pleasure would enhance your connection SO much, as your other half would feel so adored and beautiful to the man she loves, and it’d strengthen your connection and enrich your intimacy incredibly, instead of a half-motivated, needing-to-think-of-porn, seeing-yourself-as-a-performer, mechanical, soulless, depersonalised mashing of genitalia.

Everything would improve. You’d be mad that you’ve gone this long without such a vital part of yourself and your soul, and you’d be mad at just how many other men are living this way.

It really is that serious. Quit the porn, wake up to what you’ve been missing and needing within you- achieving everything you’ve always wanted to achieve not out of strained motivation but inspiration and desire- then from this place of newfound confidence and purpose, become highly attractive, then meet someone who you can create a deep intimacy with in a way you didn’t even think was possible- have beautiful, meaningful and deeply appreciative intimacy with someone you actually love and see as a complex human being- experience your intimacy in a way “close to God” I.e. highly close to its purest meaning- then continue to have benefits maximise even from there!

Enjoy your journey- remember, it wouldn’t be fun to get everything you want in one day. Then it wouldn’t be special.✨

Yes I’m [24F] that serious. Porn is eroding men’s self-belief, their inspiration, their vitality, their gumption, their confidence. If I’m in a relationship with a man or considering a relationship with a man, he needs to not watch porn. It completely hijacks your sensitivity to life- porn in itself is highly artificial, and isn’t at all compatible with our animal brains and animal bodies, that are still created and adapted to be surviving in the wild, in caves, plucking berries and journeying through different landscapes.

A man’s motivation is deeply interlinked with his sex drive- his massive vigour and vitality is something that dualistically can be expressed through creation, accomplishments, overcoming challenges, or through sexual exertion, through inspired sex with a woman he has cultivated a genuine and authentic connection with. Hookup culture/ the devaluation of sex we largely see moreso as being bad for women, but it’s also bad for men. There’s huge magic and potential that happens in the space of boredom and listlessness- those are the precursor states before inspiration and motivation- when this state is constantly “relieved” through uninspired, wasteful porn expulsions, you have released and depleted that growing momentum-gaining energy and vigour, and made yourself soft, pliable, uninspired, and unmotivated- “relieved”. If you withstand that itch and probably overwhelming desire to alleviate your addiction through immediately available means, and you push through, you will find the oasis of self-creation, and confidence, and literally all the things that you want are on the other side of that dark journey.

Porn is a massive drain on society, and causes men capable of greatness to be perpetually soft, pliable, and energetically doughy and uninspired. They get you through the “everyone does it! Everyone watches it!!” And because it’s so easily and readily available. It’s the modern day mermaids that sing sailors to their deaths in the waters- resist. Resist the mammoth, overwhelming song. Your vitality and vigour as a man is deeply interconnected with your sexual energy- the two are inseparable, and one of the biggest lies that’s been told is that this energy is cheap and meaningless and to be continually drained on one side of a screen, alone, to people who are acting, to algorithms designed to hijack and manipulate your brain to the highest potential, all for Adsense, as the culture continually depletes this meaningful civilisation-building/developing energy, as we all grow lonelier, more isolated, more empty- our lives meaningless. It is not meant to be wasted. Continue to build the momentum, feel and experience it build within you, and access high realms and intentions of yourself that you have always been silently yearning for but didn’t know the name of. Think back in history- there wasn’t high-speed internet porn that groomed young boys since before their brains were even developed- they accomplished so much. Think of all of the great philosophers, Nietzsche, Plato, Socrates, Sartre. They would NOT have accessed that full potential whilst meaninglessly alleviating themselves to porn websites several times a day- you cannot separate the accomplishment potential of a man from his sexuality. Resist and watch yourself become someone you couldn’t believe even possible- access all the higher and highest realms of yourself and become somebody that you’re PROUD of. Find yourself having beautiful, rich, meaningful relationships and connections on the other side and create and watch grow beautiful families.

Its biggest weapon is that porn convinces you of its innocence. It’s not, and that’s by design.