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Afraid I won't be able to achieve my dream of working in criminology abroad in this life
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Afraid I won't be able to achieve my dream of working in criminology abroad in this life

Hello! so around 6 years ago, I did had a psychic telling me that my life purpose was to help people and I would work in courts, everything related with forensic, and that no matter how much I would try to avoid it. Life would go around and around for me to do that job. I'm not going to say I believe this men, since he also said I was going to marry at 26 and it never happen. I'm now 28 and single since birth. I always wanted to work in a field where I could help people and I always wanted to live abroad. A lot of things happened and I don't have to mind to continue studies, also my health is a bit weird. I think that this dream is a bit farway. I will still move abroad, but I'm a bit sad that my dreams won't come true at all. I also feel lonely, I don't have a lot of support in my hometown, people around me are not the most positive ones or supportive. The reason why I'm moving is this, I feel drained, and I was wondering if there is still hope? Does my chart reflect this?

u/Dear_Heavens444 — 19 hours ago

What does this chart show?

Years of issues with friends, exclusion, bullying and severe anxiety. Trying to help my 15 yo daughter navigate her emotions. Can you share strengths? Can you share good and the concerns?

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I am a guy and I have strange fellings and repetitive bad and strange things happen and I feel a block how can I fix this?

Hi, I’m a lad and ever since I was little I’ve had strange feelings and recurring strange episodes. I have recurring episodes that also happen to my family – some involving humiliation, delusions, things go well and then end badly, mental blocks, bad luck – it’s happened to me with girls, at school, health and sport Let’s start with school: from primary through to secondary school, I constantly experienced humiliation at the hands of my teachers; I was bullied by others even at sixth form, and school was hell for me. In matters of love, I’ve always had the feeling, ever since I was a child, that I’ll be single for life – I’m convinced of it, and I know it’s not normal. With every girl I’ve tried to get involved with, I’ve always been humiliated and suffered humiliation; for example: once, I tried my luck with a girl and after she turned me down, she laughed in my face. I feel as though, whenever I approach a normal girl – not that I’m particularly attracted to her – I feel a mental block, as if I just can’t do it. All the girls who’ve made a move on me have been of very low calibre: immature, bossy, strange, insecure, and they manage to make me feel inferior and humiliate me. For example: a few months ago, a girl tried to chat me up; she had all these traits and had a fake photo I didn’t like her, so I politely turned her down, and after I turned her down, she showered me with insults I don’t mean to offend – I apologise – but I have to be honest: I think they’re a person with absolutely no redeeming qualities, and I feel like a real loser for attracting people like that. I often find myself thinking, ‘Is the whole world out to get me?’ But it’s not normal to attract people like this – it only happens once in a blue moon. I’m grateful for what little I have, but I feel like I’m being made a fool of. Even the photo isn’t real; there’s nothing good about it – it feels like a joke. On a family note, my uncle was called up twice by a professional team for a trial, and both times he had a fever, and he never had the chance to become a footballer. I, too, missed my chance to become a footballer because when I was a teenager I got injured and broke some bones, and I was treated badly; even now I haven’t fully recovered, so I never had the chance to become a footballer. Another family anecdote involves betting slips. A few years ago, my father and I were placing bets, and for a while we kept losing every match in the 90th minute – not just occasionally, but every single match in a row. That’s not normal. We even had a run of at least 50 matches in a row where we lost in the 90th minute – that’s not normal. Another similar and very strange incident concerns my favourite team and my relationship with them. My father instilled this passion in me when I was a boy, and we went to watch every game at the stadium. At first, I was very happy to go to the stadium Then, after a while, my favorite team started losing a lot of games with 90 minutes or suffering comebacks, and having a lot of bad luck. Yes, we won games, but very rarely, and we lost a lot of games that way. I felt like I was stuck, like I was bringing bad luck to my favorite team, but isn't that normal? I'm aware that there are the players, the fans, I can't bring bad luck, but I felt this feeling. How is that possible? Another strange episode is with the PlayStation. I've been a FIFA player for a long time. I've always played it, it's my passion. At the beginning, in the first few games I played FIFA, it's true I was less strong as a player, but I lost a lot of games and at the 90 minute for example: in 40 games I lost 35 matches in the 90th minute tied 2/3 and win 1/2 I understand losing because I was less strong but it's not normal to lose all the matches in the 90th minute These are the episodes that happen to me. They're not serious episodes, there are definitely more serious things, but they are very strange and repeated episodes that also affect my family: humiliation, illusion, teasing, as if things are going well and then they end badly like betting slips. Strange feelings and I feel a block. Now I'm doing psychological therapy, but I have the feeling that I can't cope with things. Maybe we can talk about family karma? Looking at my birth chart, is it normal for these episodes to happen? and how can i solve I'm currently undergoing psychological counseling but I can't understand the reason for these episodes. I think I can't cope with my life. Unfortunately, I can't have astrologers. Can anyone give me some advice? Sorry for the inconvenience.

u/Leather-Platypus-293 — 2 days ago
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How can I learn to find stability within and love myself?

It’s hard to even know where to start when my mind is constantly running in circles, trying to fix things that are already in the past. Half the time, I feel like I’m completely consumed by this deep sense of regret and frustration with myself, especially when it comes to my ex and everything that went down between us. I catch myself constantly overanalyzing where I went wrong, spiraling into self-criticism, and wondering why it’s so hard for me to just be okay on my own. I get so attached to these old feelings and connections that it completely pulls me out of the present, making me feel unsteady and deeply dissatisfied with who I am right now. I’m just so tired of feeling like my worth or peace of mind depends on someone else’s place in my life, or on a past version of myself that I can't get back.
More than anything, I just want to figure out how to build real stability inside my own head without relying on external validation or ghost stories from the past. I want to learn how to forgive myself for not having it all figured out, to stop looking at my mistakes through a lens of disgust, and to actually feel comfortable in my own skin. Finding stability means learning to trust myself again, giving myself the same grace I so easily extend to other people, and realizing that my life and value don't start and stop with a relationship. I want to build a foundation that isn't easily shaken every time an old memory or heavy emotion surfaces, so I can finally feel grounded in who I am today.

u/Fit_Bathroom_9522 — 2 days ago

I’ve heard my chart is boring

I once had a friend look over my chart who stated that it was one of the more boring ones they had read. Do you disagree?

u/Single_Breadfruit_10 — 4 days ago

Recent breakup

Hi everyone. No pressure, wondering if anyone is interested in providing their opinion on whether there’s anything in my chart that would relate to the fact that I am deeply in love and grieving the loss of a man who was essentially abusive (coercive control) throughout our three year relationship. We broke up 4 weeks ago, and I am still so attached, while he has moved on to date/sleep with someone else within a few days of us separating. Upon reflection I realize that all of my past relationships have contained abuse in some form, towards me; be it physical, emotional, mental, etc. I am in therapy now, as well. Just wondering why I am falling so hard for people who mistreat me this way. Thank you for your time, either way. 🩷

u/littlebeethebird — 4 days ago
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I’ve been in love with her for years. She loves my brother. (Read Description)

I’m orange (Sag Sun), she’s blue (Leo Sun).

It’s always been her, ever since we were kids playing video games in elementary school, long before I even fully understood what love meant. The real nightmare started freshman year of high school when she started dating my older brother. Watching them together for that entire year tore me apart, forcing a wedge between us until we completely drifted. Her and I were great friends and I’ve always seen her as my soulmate regardless of the real world circumstances. I feel like shes the one who truly gets me and for years, it’s only been her who’s made me feel that way. I don’t understand it. It’s like a non verbal, subconscious, soul level connection. After her and my brother finally broke up, a full year of heavy silence passed before she reached back out, wanting to heal old wounds and rebuild our friendship. Having her back in my life is all I ever wanted. I am still hopelessly in love with this girl and all I want is for a future with her. I am so convinced deep in my soul that we are fated to be together, yet I can constantly feel the ghost of my brother between us, sensing that her heart is still tied to him. It’s like she’s living in a house he built, and no matter how deeply I love her or how hard I try to fill that space, I’m always just visiting while his ghost holds the deed. She might not even realize she’s doing it, but her heart is still tethered to him, and as long as that shadow exists, I’m just standing on the sidelines of a story that was never truly meant to be mine.

She is an absolute ghost even when she’s standing right in front of me, always slipping through my fingers the exact second I think I finally have a hold on who we are. She’s completely elusive, holding her true feelings in this impenetrable vault while throwing me just enough breadcrumbs of intense intimacy to keep me hooked. It’s a constant game of emotional hide-and-seek. She will invite me into creating these breathtaking images of our future, only to hit me with cold ambiguity the moment things get too real. She lives in the grey, nuanced world, morphing her narrative whenever it suits her, and it leaves me wandering through a fog where nothing is tangible, desperately trying to catch a shadow that refuses to be pinned down.

Does all of this make sense in our synastry? Does the synastry match the behaviour in her that I’ve described? Are there any explanations or clarification that can be pulled from our synastry? Was she fated to meet my brother?

Absolutely anything helps! If you have any thoughts , questions, or opinions please feel free to drop them. I appreciate your time, and thanks in advance 💐

u/almightyambiguity — 4 days ago

What are the traps in my chart?

When I first got my chart I was shocked to see so much fire. I would never have guessed. Now that I have paid attention to it, I have a lot of fear of bringing my passion (for anything) out to the surface for people to stomp all over.

I’m struggling with some other things. I am curious if you can tell me about them. I know almost nothing about charts and zodiac other than the Sun and the Moon. Typical stuff.

u/Master_Ari — 4 days ago
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Early saturn return?

turning 28 soon.. and as much as people say their saturn return is bad and causes upheaval, I think from 25-28 I've lived an extremely intense, difficult almost unbearable phase and I'm not too sure how to see the upcoming few years for me? can it actually get worse for me? like.. this is the end of the end! any insight on whether a saturn return lessons can take place earlier ? or how do I navigate my shipwrecked life now?

u/throw_away_acx — 6 days ago
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48M single have been suffering for years wondering why my life is delayed in every way possible. Almost at my breaking point, almost suidical. I really need genuine help

48M everything is delayed or restricted. I never had even as much as a gf even though I'm called cute or handsome. Dealing with legal issues since age 22, am not 48 with no end in sight. No career, financial, or love progress. I really need someone's genuine help. I am repeatedly told contradictory things, like which mandasha I am in, or told Kaal Sarp Dosh, etc. I just need honest, genuine help from someone who looks at my chart deeply enough. I use this Astrosage chart, but I wonder if the timing might be off a tiny bit. I assume it is accurate. Do my Saturn restrictions ever end? Do I ever get to be married or am I doomed to a life alone? I'm tired, so very, very tired. All I ever think about these days is a permanent sleep. I'm tired of living a life where I only get to watch and not grow and progress like others.

u/tiredoflife407 — 7 days ago
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Boyfriends Chart

Hi, I'm not into astrology but can anyone tell me anything about this chart, I'm trying to get to know him better but he doesn't tell me much about his inside life, is he hiding something or?

u/Empty-Advance-2353 — 6 days ago
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i'm a bit bored with introspection, healing and kind of want to have fun now.

i've moved away from family and free from drama - cut out 90% of people i know, de-activated or abandoned all socials.

I plan to just lay low and build quietly and then just f off to either Berlin or LA

u/Alert_Permission9785 — 7 days ago
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What are the biggest positives and negatives in my chart regarding to work?

I've been told that I could have great luck with start-ups, but lack the work ethic. I can verify that the 2nd claim is quite true.

u/Ok_Depth682 — 6 days ago