u/Ready_Ad9742

I’ve only recently discovered Mbti Reddit and it’s so fun, like these are my kind of people. But why can’t I post trends on the Mbti page unless it’s Sunday or family dynamics on memes or either of these on intj 😭 why do I have to go to a different specific page for each thing that’s so annoying. I feel safe here please don’t kick me out too.

I think I’ve finally figured out the labels that fit me the best and the kind of relationship that would actually work for me. It’s exciting, but depressing. I’m lithromantic (heavy), aegosexual/demisexual mix (it’s complicated), and pansexual-heteroromantic.
Ideally, I’d be in a long distance, queer-platonic or committed friendship where physical intimacy and romantic partnership is only a possible eventual thing but not expected. We would meet in person only a few times a year (at most), preferably never. We can text, call, play games, parallel play on call, maybe vent. We each have our own life, value solo time and independence, are not clingy. Calls are usually low energy, where we don’t have to talk deeply, just there doing our own thing. We don’t have to move fast into official labels or expectations.

I just want another person in my corner. “barely give me the time of day and I will love you forever” kind of vibe.

The depressing part is that I am never going to find this. I’m sure it exists but it’s probably something that happens spontaneously from being in bigger communities (which I am not). I’m a big homebody and introverted with mild social anxiety, and discord servers are intimidating and confusing. I’m giving up before I even try.