u/RealisticBrilliant75

I was looking at Facebook marketplace to find a car before heading back to school in September and stumbled across a Mazda 2 2012 hatchback for $2800. Since I am a broke college student in need of a new car, $3500 was kind of my limit right now and it seemed perfect. It has 224k miles but they said they regularly flushed the transmission and changed the oil along with new set of front and rear breaks. I don’t see a lot of rust if any so ideally this car seems fine the only thing that bugs me is the miles since I am not familiar with the life expectancy of these cars.

Would anybody know of any good places in or near GR that do adhd testing and take Medicaid? I’m 19 and confident that I have ADHD and would like to get help with it. Also how long would it typically take to get a diagnosis?

I’m fairly new to Reddit and new to talking to people about this in general. I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 1/2 years now who has diagnosed depression and anxiety but I also suspect AuDHD. I love my girlfriend to death, she’s helped me through so much and has made me grow immeasurably as a person. She has made me more passionate about essentially everything in my life.

Recently, she has had to get off ALL of her medication (Lexapro, wellbutrin, etc.) due to unusual symptoms of tics that were sometimes severe. Due to her depression and being off medication, she tells me almost everyday that she hates her life. It doesn’t help that she is also experiencing withdrawals from 2-3 different medications which has made her practically bedridden and unable to eat or drink healthy amounts. Shes been in and out the doctor (emergency room twice) for her constant nausea, lack of appetite, and very low blood pressure. That lasted about a month and a half, and recently shes gotten better to the point where she can be up and around somewhat but the tics and nausea are still present. She had to leave her job which was hairstyling after just getting hired so she’s also been unable to work. Even though she’s able to be up and moving, minor inconveniences pile up and ruin her day and possibly her week. I’m glad she feels comfortable enough to communicate this with me but it really gets overbearing sometimes and I just hate to see her always say she wants to kill herself or she hates everything if something goes wrong in her day. There is really nothing I can say or do that will help her with that and I think that just makes it worse for me. I really try my best being patient with her and reassuring her about everything and how I love her but it feels impossible to talk about how much it weighs on me too without giving her another reason to hate herself. More than a lot of the days she also tells me how she thinks I hate her or tells me about she has terrible dreams of me doing something heinous like cheating or just blatantly disrespectful which is extremely out of character for me. I’m just really trying my hardest for her but it’s really weighing down on my chest on top of my own problems. It feels selfish of me to even feel like that especially since she is the one experiencing it firsthand—not me. I know that we are not married yet, and I really do plan to marry her one day, but I feel so bad for struggling so hard with the “through sickness and health” vow. How do you guys do it? Do you stay and hope it gets better and help them to the best of ur ability? Or did you leave?

Edit: Her being off medication isn’t new. She hasn’t been on medication the first 1 1/2 to 2 years we’ve met. It is not like I haven’t dealt with this before but recently it has just been a lot with her big life changes (not being able to do what she went to cosmetology school for) and my life changes on top of my own academic and financial stress currently.

Anybody know any spots downtown that are doing a watch party for the game on the 5th @8PM? I know city brewing did a viewing for Mexico Vs. Ecuador – are they doing it again?