u/Reasonable-Bag1459

▲ 9 r/ynab

New User: Question on paychecks and categories

Hi! I just started YNAB and I have a question.

My paycheck this month is very different than what it would be normally, and because of that I'm one month behind so June's payments will be doubled. Is there any way to skip months in the plan and force the plan to start in July instead?

Bonus question, for months that have 3 checks instead of 2, how are yall handling that?

Thank you in advance!

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u/Reasonable-Bag1459 — 3 days ago
▲ 9 r/rant

I just want to rant for a second.

No advice wanted just want to scream into the void. Thanks.

He graduated and is closing on a house.

Within a year of him leaving me.

Even though I'm the one that helped him get college for free. Even though I'm the reason he has a credit score. Even though I brought him out of a funk so deep he didn't see the light.

I was that damn overwatch meme and he got up and did amazing. Which I am genuinely proud of him for.

But now I get to rebuild my life from the ground up and he gets to enjoy the fruits of labor that I contributed to.

It's hard to be proud and angry at the same time. It's so hard. I feel bile behind my smile. I don't react to feel this way. I just want to watch him be happy. But I'm bitter, I'm heartbroken, I feel used.

What did I get out of this? Heartbreak and a force reboot on my life. Must be nice to not be me.

And this is it. I'm done complaining about him. It's over. I'm done. I'm just gonna watch him bask in his success and I'm gonna work on my own.

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u/Reasonable-Bag1459 — 4 days ago

Happy? Mother's Day

I love that I hyperventilate when I clean because I'm afraid of being hit or having my stuff broken.

u/Reasonable-Bag1459 — 12 days ago
▲ 47 r/Mercari

Yall ever see a profile that makes you say wtf out loud?

Boredom window shopping, see something I like and the description says to read the profile.

What in the hell

u/Reasonable-Bag1459 — 12 days ago

ELI5: Cpr? How does it work?

My main question is how does breathing CO2 into someone help them? Does it like force their lungs to expel it so the breathe out kind of thing? Aside from the obvious like oxygen deprivation how does the influx of CO2 not cause issues?

Edit: Thank you all for your help! I learned a lot today. Appreciate it!

TL;DR

You have more oxygen in your exhale than I thought and that's better than nothing.

Chest compressions > mouth to mouth (unless liquid is involved).

Act fast and call 911.

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u/Reasonable-Bag1459 — 14 days ago

I'm more shocked that my mom told me my grandma did this. I told them years ago and she's still going bananas over it. If she really didn't believe me like she said she didn't why is this still her only drunk topic of conversation?

I still wonder why they thought I isolated myself from that side of the family, but alas what do I know.

Bonus commentary:

You don't get to be all up and arms and angry everyday that your kid was SA'd when you didn't find out until 8 years ago, I've lived it for 27 years. Get over it. I had to.

u/Reasonable-Bag1459 — 14 days ago