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My husband is a different person

I have been with my husband for 10 years and married for 7. He is a different person from when we first met and not in a small way but in big ways. His values, morals etc all seem to have shifted. I’m conflicted because I see him as the man I met but don’t feel he is that person anymore and I think I ignore it because I’m stuck in the past and who he was and not who he is. I find we are fighting a lot more as well now. Is it possible for someone to do a complete 180 on who they once were?

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u/Reasonable-Bet2927 — 21 hours ago
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Is lack of emotional support enough to leave husband?

My husband is great in many ways but he doesn’t provide me with emotional support. I never feel heard. I cry in private to myself or share my troubles with friends. When I have cried to him I’m just ignored. We have kids together and I feel like he doesn’t care how much being a SAHM takes it out of me. He thinks I have it easy or that I “sit around all day” but I’m scared to leave because in many ways he is a good guy and I worry about starting all over but also my needs are not being met in this marriage either. Is this something that could be resolved?

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u/Reasonable-Bet2927 — 9 days ago

Sore sore everywhere, am I alone?

So I’m 28 weeks pregnant and just achy everywhere. I have PGP and had this bad with my first pregnancy it’s probably actually better than it was with my first born but still present and makes walking hard I waddle and I’m uncomfortable despite being small. My neck and shoulders ache as well. I feel crap but everytime I go to any pregnancy place I see other pregnant women walking around fine like normal speed and no pain I feel so alone. I felt I was doing better in this pregnancy than my first but now I feel like rubbish compared to others

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u/Reasonable-Bet2927 — 23 days ago

Frozen shoulder recovery pain

Hi all, I’ve had frozen shoulder for almost a year but it has mostly resolved, I have full range in all directions apart from external rotation but only missing that by about 10 degrees so more than functional range. However, the last few weeks I’ve been really really achy it’s so bad whether I’m moving or at rest, mainly in my lat behind armpit type area, side rib arm aches etc I am also pregnant so not sure if coming from that but I’m starting to panic that the shoulder is refreezing again as it feels similar to where my journey began. Is this normal? I’m so upset

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u/Reasonable-Bet2927 — 29 days ago

Jaw pain and pregnancy

Hi all, I woke up one day and had jaw pain on one side. Now it jumps around from side to side sometimes both sides, sometimes ears ache, teeth ache. Sometimes it more local to the mouth teeth area. This is my second pregnancy and didn’t have this issue the first time round or ever in my life. This is going on 8 weeks now and I’m so fed up of not eating what I want and being in pain and uncomfortable. I’m seeing Osteo and doing dry needling which helps but all feels very temporary. Dentist said teeth were fine and jaw movement was fine so seems more clenching/muscular in nature. I’ve been googling and now I’m terrified this won’t go away. I already have aches and pains and postpartum was a nightmare the first time round, with a new issue I’m not coping at all and feeling extremely depressed everyday at almost 25 weeks pregnant. Has anyone experienced this before? Will it go away?

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u/Reasonable-Bet2927 — 2 months ago