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First time being eaten out advice

My boyfriend wants to eat me out. Not in a pressuring way. Just because ive blown him 4x and he wants to reciprocate. But I'm very nervous

More context: ive known him for a year and half and we have been dating about 3 months. About a month ago I offered to blow him. He accepted. Since ive blown him 3 other times. He has offered to eat me out. Once I say no he simply says are you sure and I say yes. Ive never been eaten out before and hes never eaten anyone out before

I'm afraid of a few things.

One, I'm not shaved. I'm quite confident he wouldn't want me to shave for that and hes even commented I dont have to shave my legs. But hes new to this. If I dont shave there will be hair over my vagina unless I move it but moving it sounds awkward. And I'm unsure if he would want to move it

Two, generally it takes me 8-10 minutes to cum. I dont want to make him feel bad or inadequate. And I would feel bad making him go for that long. Especially on his first time

Three, I struggle a lot with vulnerability. And letting someone eat me out feels very vulnerable and scary. In addition cumming in front of someone feels raw and very vulnerable.

He's not pressuring me at all. I want him to eat me out. I want to know what it feels like. I'm just scared. Any advice is very welcome and appreciated

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u/RegularChair9152 — 6 days ago

Getting eaten out for the first time advice

I've blown him 4x and he wants to reciprocate. He has offered and I have declined. Which he respects. I'm scared because its my first time being eaten out and his first time eating someone out.

I'm not shaved. I'm afraid i may take too long to cum or not cum at all.

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u/RegularChair9152 — 6 days ago