u/Relevant-Push7852

Tell me everything

Hello! Im 16 and ive just started having boyfriends, my mother never told me anything about hygiene other than shower and put deodorant on. I've been getting really nervous about my smell down there and shaving down there. I was wondering if maybe any of you could share what you know or what you've been taught?

I dont have money so I cant go out and buy fancy products to make everything perfect. How am I supposed to smell, taste, look, feel?? What do I use? How do I use it? I trust my boyfriend to never judge me or push me into doing something but I just want to be my very best for him!

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u/Relevant-Push7852 — 1 day ago
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Im not sure what to do

So im 16 trans female to male and my neighbor is 26 male with a rescue greyhound. I recently had to put my puppy down and my neighbor said on Thursdays I could look after his dog when he goes to therapy. I love this dog so much he's so sweet. Anyways I got his Instagram and showed my sister. My sister said she knows him and she did stuff with him when he was 16 and she was 13.

I was messaging him and we were talking about vapes, he sent a photo of his and it looked pretty small so I said that and he replied with, "big hands 😜" then i was just asking questions to get to know him and I stupidly asked if he was dating anyone. Later he says "I was thinking about this yesterday, you asking coz your dtf aye 😛"

I cant tell any of my family because they'll get so pissed and take my phone away. I cant block him because he knows where I live and I hate blocking people for no reason AND I still wanna see his cute dog. Im worried if I see him around its gonna be awkward and im scared I maybe led him on a bit? Even if I did he's 10 years older and im not sure he should be asking 16 year olds this. I said to him thats not what I meant but I could see how he got to that point and he hasn't responded yet. What do I do in the nicest, least dramatic, open minded way.

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u/Relevant-Push7852 — 5 days ago

So I was thinking about reptiles and how some give birth to live young and it made me wonder... if any of the tribes were to give birth to live young, which one/s do you think would?

And add any other of your hcs you have about birth/egg laying.

I feel like if any tribe would, it'd be seawings and rainwings, idk why but that makes sense to me.

Also I feel like silkwings in their early days could've layed really sticky eggs and placed them beneath a leaf and they just leave like mudwing parents. (This would also mean they lay tons of eggs) or maybe leafwings would do that? Or what if mudwing eggs were like turtles, they crawl out from the ground and head to the nearest mud pit. Ooh no that'd be seawings 100%

And hivewings would have this instinct to build a nest like a wasp nest to lay their eggs. Skywings go to the highest mountain. Icewings hibernate like bears and lay eggs during that, also losing heaps of weight. Sandwings and nightwings I feel are good in their canon. Idk much about the >!wildwings!< or hybrids so ig they'd do whatever tribe they have most of. >!Unless wildwings over the centuries built their own tradition/instinct.!<

Let me know your guys thoughts! ^^

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u/Relevant-Push7852 — 20 days ago