u/Relevant_Goose1532

Hi everyone!

I've finally started my breast reduction journey by visiting a few different surgeons to see what feels best for me but I need some advice.

I am currently a 36DD but I'm hoping to go down to an A cup, I've been told that due to such a dramatic change I would most likely have no sensation in my nipples.

This doesn't really phase me as I'll never be giving birth nor having sex. I told the surgeon this but he sorta doubled down.

So to anyone that has experienced this, is it really that big of a deal? Because I know I want a small chest.

Hi everyone! I've come to ask for help as I can't find a reliable source anywhere.

I want to watch Teach You A Lesson but I have to be careful with depictions of self harm. I have OCD and issues with it so I need to avoid it the best I can.

Could anyone please tell me which episodes show self harm and how graphic it is? I know this might make me sound pathetic but it's just the way my brain works.

Thank you in advance to anyone who answers!

Hi everyone! So a few months ago I finally decided that I was done with men, in the sense that I wasn't going to try and force myself to like them. I've known I was asexual since I was 14 but defining my romantic orientation was always a struggle.

I really wanted to like men, I have tried occasionally over the years to flirt with them, talk with them or be open to the idea but deep down I knew it wasn't for me. Even when I was calling myself pan, subconsciously I knew that I was lying to myself.

A part of it came from wanting to please my parents (even though they have never pushed me) or it was internalised homophobia. I guess I just keep trying to evoke something in myself.

When I tried to date a guy for a week (I lasted literally 6 days) I finally had to accept that I couldn't live like this. I even said that I wished he was a girl. He was a nice enough guy but I felt nothing, plus I've had girlfriends before and it wasn't even a fraction of the affection I felt for them. He also made several comments about my asexuality that were borderline aphobic. The usual things about medication causing it or a hormone imbalance, he tried to get me to do things a few times too.

So yeah. After years of ignoring it and pushing it down, I'm out as a lesbian. To absolutely no one's surprise. My mother said she had just been waiting for me to fully understand myself. It was obvious I never liked men but desperation, am I right?

This is just my story I felt like sharing. And of course, I'm still my wonderful asexual self💜

I suppose this is more about my romantic attraction rather than my asexuality but this place is my home, it feels right to share it here.