Best friend and sis bro in law never pitch in and I’m over it
Yall this July 4th was terrible..it’s hot I’m on SSRI’s so I’m even more hot and uncomfortable. We plan a cook out and mother in law buys the ribs chicken, husband and I get desserts and bestie was going to come over with his partner and sister/brother in law(they were in charge of meat). The night before we had a game night and asked if we wanted drinks. Me thinking oh okay we’re going to contribute and pitch in to get some stuff. Nope, asked if I had money(I’m unemployed so I don’t and won’t be drinking anyway) best friend says he’ll get the stuff, cool. Turns out the money he was using to buy the mixes was meant for buying meat for the cookout. People usually pitch in when buying alcohol right?
Next day, I’m messaging them telling them to not forget meat and he says “I might just get hot dogs, I don’t have enough” okay so tell your partner to help tf? Sister and bro in law can’t pitch in?? Plot twist they never do but boy do they eat and indulge like they contributed. My mother and sister, who came down to visit, ended up going to get meat and dropped almost $60.
They are guests and we had already determined who was getting what , I felt like shit asking them to get some stuff but no one wants hotdogs. Husband and I go outside and get the grill going and spend 2 hours in the heat and sun cooking. I’m pissed I’m hot and I’m in a terrible mood. We cook every take it inside and then best friend his partner and sis/bro in law come over ready to eat..with a package of hotdogs that NO ONE opened or cooked. Not even a thank you for cooking, didn’t even come over to help cook anything but boy did they dig in and ate and ate and ate. I was too upset I didn’t want to socialize with anyone. Terrible headache and heat exhaustion along with my husband.
Who does that?? No help in buying stuff or pitching in, no help in cooking ANYTHING. Sure happy to eat tho💀 this is long enough I’m sorry but thank you for reading