u/Remarkable_Rip8573

Hello everyone,

Am 24M, from Gujarat. From childhood the environment of my home was religious. And from the childhood i promised myself that there will be only 1 girl with whom i will create a relationship and eventually will get marry. Fast forward to class 11, I developed affection towards a girl in my class. And our friendship turned into relationship in class 12th. We prepared for class 12th exam, i got into an NIT and she got a good state government college. But after the 1st year of our college, things started becoming worsen. And we broke up. The pain was very severe. And i decided not to fall for anyone again. The 4 years of college were gone, time was flying, i got placed in an MNC, i started earning. But long stretched working hours+boring routine+ no one to talk(felt lonely) messed my head up. The actual downfall started then, i started seeing escorts/paid hookups. Slowly it became a habit. I became regular to spas,escorts etc. Once in a month to 2-3 times in a month, i becane addicted.

I switched my job from ahmedabad to vadodara. But my habit didn't. But some weird thing happened to me last month. I developed the same feeling as were in my 1st realtion for an escort. I started visiting here not for sex but to talk with her. I confessed her about my feelings but the outcome was disastrous. I got into the same mental state as i was after my 1st breakup. Now i want to focus on an exam for my masters but my focus/concentration everything is gone. Apart from that if i am looking backward towards mypast 2 years, i felt ashamed on me.

Please suggest what to do, as i am not seeing anything clearly despite of the reality is infront of me. I am dwelled into the clouds of attachment, love and sex.

By seeing the whistleblower and many other posts of ragging, inhumane induction culture of top tier B-schools, am now in the utmost shock!. I am not able to digest this things because,

1. raised in a family full of love, am a little emotional towards people(both positive and negative). I will not tolerate any kind of ragging like situation in B-schools(sidha 1 lafa maar dunga).

2. my undergrad was from an NIT, and the seniors there were very helpful. Had not seen any kind of ragging culture yet. So am little bit intimidated too.

What is the truth? Is the culture of B-schools is this much toxic?

Personally, i prefer my mental peace more than anything in this world. And would not tolerate even an inch for it.

Please give the actual reality of the ground.🙏🏻

I am suffering from heartburn/heartachs after the so called situationship. I don't have that much friends to talk this about. Need someone to give advice/medication so that i can focus on my exam/career or someone who can atleast listen to me. There's a lot of burden on my heart, i am feeling heartaches. Please someone save me. Can't able to sleep/eat food/ to focus anywhere. Suggest some doctor who csn give me a magic pill so that i can live peacefully.

Hello seniors and colleagues, i am sick of the VARC section of IMS. Can you tell me any "Reliable" resources to practice VARC section? Any kind of resource contains RC and VA which resonates with CAT level is what i needed.

Hello seniors and other fellows!

I am currently enrolled in IMS, and i know that my weakest section is VARC. Though i am solving RCs from portal, my accuracy is not exceeding 50%. Now comes the main confusion, I like Aeon essays-very easy to understand(Give the main idea in 1st para then elaboration/evidence and so on) but i am getting difficulty in understanding RCs.

Considering the time period(only 5 months are left), what should i do?

Hello seniors and other fellows!

I am currently enrolled in IMS, and i know that my weakest section is VARC. Though i am solving RCs from portal, my accuracy is not exceeding 50%. Now comes the main confusion, I like Aeon essays-very easy to understand(Give the main idea in 1st para then elaboration/evidence and so on) but i am getting difficulty in understanding RCs.

Considering the time period(only 5 months are left), what should i do?

Hello seniors and other fellows!

I am currently enrolled in IMS, and i know that my weakest section is VARC. Though i am solving RCs from portal, my accuracy is not exceeding 50%. Now comes the main confusion, I like Aeon essays-very easy to understand(Give the main idea in 1st para then elaboration/evidence and so on) but i am getting difficulty in understanding RCs.

Considering the time period(only 5 months are left), what should i do?

Hello seniors,

Need help to ace VARC section of CAT, have tried all- read AEON essay, solved 2-3 RCs everyday....but neither accuracy is improving and nor able to comprehend anything....tried GMAT club CR questions(550-650 range), all have done but failure is inevitable. Where is the gap? What things am i doing wrong? Please help me.

Am a student and preparing for an exam, are there any public libraries or places in vadodara to study(which has good environment too)?