Ex says she wants to reconcile but she doesn’t act like it.
About a week ago my ex adds me on snap after four months of no contact (we have been broken up for over a year now).
We talk and catch up a bit but she keeps talking about how she was thinking about our relationship. That was the first thing that caught my eye because our relationship wasn’t all that great.
Then about an hour after we catch up a bit she sends me nudes, and I send nudes back. Then I tell her I don’t really want to do that again and she just blocks me.
About a week later yesterday she texts my number and says the same thing about wanting to get back together. I tell her that I’m not really going to jump into a relationship with her again and that I’ll need time to reconcile before anything happens. I also say that I am going to set a clear boundary that we won’t do any sexual stuff unless we both agree to do it and it isn’t just a spur of the moment thing.
She leaves the conversation on a simple dismissive “well” and then leaves me on delivered for over 24 hours.
I decided to give her some time to maybe think about what I said and I realized that wasn’t working so I sent her a clear and concise message explaining that I’m not playing around and that I won’t be played by her and that if she wants to talk things out she has until tomorrow night to do so or I’m cutting ties. But I’m still conflicted on doing that.