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I almost didn't even click on the link when I got the text thinking it wouldn't be anything good but the prices are wild! The girls is selling out fast but the boys are left!

TBBC pencil case $5

TBBC backpack $15

I also saw they are doing $5 monograms but I didn't want to risk it, I have never used their monogram services before. shopmy links fyi!

I almost didn't even click on the sale when I got the text thinking it wouldn't be anything good. Would make an awesome gift set with the backpack, lunch box, and pencil pouch! They also are doing $5 monograms but I didn't do that. I am going to use this set for my son for traveling. Aff link fyi!!

I’m looking for some new gift ideas for grandparents and would love some suggestions! I typically get my Nana things like robes and slippers. But I can only do that so many times...

Grandparents can be so hard to shop for because they often say they don’t need or want anything. 😅

What are some gifts your grandparents have actually loved? I’m especially looking for ideas that are:

• Thoughtful and personal
• Useful rather than just more stuff
• Affordable
• Good for grandparents who “have everything”
• Appropriate for Christmas, birthdays, or anniversaries

What have your grandparents loved? WHat's the best gift you have ever given your grandparents? And what’s something you bought that ended up being a total miss?

Gift Ideas For Grandparents

I’d love to hear the ideas that have actually worked!

Ok moms on a budget, I want to hear your honest opinions on this one because I know this topic can get heated and you all will get it. 😂

Should kids actually get an allowance for doing chores?

Growing up, I was taught that you help around the house because you’re part of the family. Making your bed, doing the dishes, taking out the trash, cleaning your room, etc. weren’t things you got paid for.

But I also understand the argument for paying kids for chores. An allowance can teach children about budgeting, saving money, earning money, and understanding that work has value. Plus, it gives kids their own spending money without parents constantly being asked to buy little things.

Here's where I'm torn:

If you pay for every chore, are you teaching kids that they should only help when there's money involved?

Or is an allowance actually one of the best money lessons for kids, especially when you're trying to raise financially responsible children?

And from a budgeting perspective, I can see both sides. Giving a child $5–$10 a week adds up over time, but it might also prevent the constant “Mom, can I have this?” every time you're at the store. 😅

So I'm curious:

Do your kids get an allowance?

And bonus question: How much allowance do you think is reasonable by age?

I'd love to hear what actually works for your family—and whether you think paying kids for chores teaches good financial habits or creates a sense of entitlement.

I’m curious where everyone stands on this because I feel like most people who are into grandmillennial are probably more old school and into etiquette and I feel like dinner party etiquette has changed over the years.

If someone invites you over for a dinner party, do you think it’s rude to show up empty handed? Has this happened to you as a host? What do you like to bring?

I’m not talking about bringing something the host specifically requested. I mean showing up with absolutely nothing not wine, flowers, dessert, a candle, or even a small hostess gift.

My grandmother always taught me that you should never arrive at someone's home for dinner empty handed. It didn’t have to be expensive. A bouquet of flowers, a bottle of wine, chocolates, or something small for the host was simply considered good manners. I really like bringing candles, if I know the host likes candles.

But I’ve heard the opposite argument: if someone invites you to dinner, they’re inviting you as a guest. You shouldn’t feel obligated to bring something, especially when the host has already planned and prepared the meal.

So where do you stand?

And for those who grew up with more traditional or “grandmillennial” etiquette: what did your family teach you about this? Is it regional?

I’d especially love to hear whether you think this is an outdated etiquette rule or one worth keeping.

My daughter was gifted the original set of Samantha books and is now really into American Girls (mainly Samantha) and has asked for a doll. They are pricey, as everyone knows lol, so I was trying to plan ahead for Christmas if they ever put the popular style dolls on sale.

It is a final sale but the price is good so worth a shot, I was leaning towards my regular size. Any experience with this style?

She is 30, loves reading, "nerdy" things, cats, no kids, harry potter, acotar etc.

I am all over the place! I need some fresh ideas. Right now I would love Hawaii but I know that is difficult to arrange with friends. Should I just go the easy route and do an All Inclusive in the Caribbean?

I bought my daughter and I matching pieces from the most recent sale. My daughters dress arrived but the matching skirt I got for myself is back ordered. I only wanted these pieces for the matching aspect. So now I am super disappointed and would not have bought these items, ya know? Has anyone actually had success with a back ordered item arriving?

I was looking at this cute personalized little step stool, but do parents like that? Or is it weird for me to gift not being the parent? It would be for a first birthday.

https://thegiftgivingguide.com/top-beach-and-pool-toys-gear-for-little-kids/

What should we add to our list? What are your summer essentials with little kids?

Gift Ideas for Six Year Old Girls complete list!

My daughter just turned 6, and I didn't realize how tricky this age is to shop for.

She's kind of in that stage where she's outgrown a lot of "little kid" toys but isn't interested in teenage stuff yet. I wanted to find gifts that are actually fun, encourage creativity, and won't just end up forgotten in a closet after a week.

So far I've found some great ideas like:

• STEM toys and science kits
• Arts & crafts sets
• Building toys
• Books she'll actually want to read
• Outdoor toys
• Board games for family game night
• Cute room décor
• Pretend play sets
• Educational gifts that don't feel like school

I ended up putting together a big list of gift ideas with different price ranges and categories because I figured other parents, grandparents, aunts, and uncles are probably searching for the same thing.

If anyone else is looking for gift ideas for 6-year-old girls, best gifts for a 6-year-old girl, birthday gifts for 6-year-old girls, or Christmas gift ideas for 6-year-old girls, here's the list:

👉 https://thegiftgivingguide.com/gift-ideas-for-six-year-old-girls-2/

I'd also love to hear what gifts have been the biggest hit with the 6-year-olds in your life. Sometimes the best recommendations come from parents who've already tested everything!

If you've been searching for ways to save money on groceries, you're definitely not alone. Feeding a family has become so expensive, and every trip to the store seems to cost more than the last.

After trying dozens of budgeting tricks, these are the ones that have actually made a difference for my family:

• Meal plan based on what's already in your pantry.
• Buy store brands whenever possible.
• Check clearance sections for meat and freeze it.
• Cook one or two meatless dinners each week.
• Make a grocery list and stick to it.
• Freeze leftover fruits and vegetables before they go bad.
• Compare unit prices instead of package prices.
• Use cashback and coupon apps when they're worth the effort.
• Buy seasonal produce.
• Cook larger meals and freeze portions for busy nights.
• Skip convenience foods when you can make them cheaper at home.
• Rotate inexpensive pantry staples like rice, beans, pasta, and oats.
• Pack lunches instead of buying them.
• Make coffee at home most days.
• Don't shop hungry... it really does save money!

I'd also love to hear what has worked for other moms. What is the one budgeting or grocery-saving tip you swear by?

If you're looking for a supportive community where moms share practical ways to save money, stretch a paycheck, find deals, and help each other through rising costs, you're invited to join r/BudgetMoms . We focus on realistic, judgment-free budgeting ideas for families, and everyone is welcome to share tips, ask questions, or celebrate small financial wins.

My neice is entering the tween years, and I feel completely out of touch with what's considered "cool." 😂

I'm looking for the best birthday gift ideas for tween girls (around ages 10–12). Not necessarily expensive gifts, just things that real tweens really love and actually use.

Some questions:

• What was the biggest hit with your tween?
• Are there any gifts that were surprisingly popular?
• What should I avoid because it's already "so last year"?
• If you have a daughter, niece, granddaughter, or know a tween, what gift made them actually excited?

I'm open to all kinds of ideas:

• Creative and crafty gifts
• Tech gadgets
• Room decor
• Beauty and self-care (age appropriate)
• Books
• Outdoor activities
• Games
• Fashion and accessories
• Experiences instead of physical gifts
• Budget-friendly ideas under $25 or $50
• Bigger "wow" gifts if they're worth it

I'm hoping this thread can become a helpful resource for anyone searching for birthday gifts for tween girls, gift ideas for 10 year old girls, gift ideas for 11 year old girls, gift ideas for 12 year old girls.

What are the gifts you've seen tweens absolutely love lately? Thanks in advance for all the suggestions!

Before anyone comes for me, I love grandmillennial style, antiques, and old school style.

Give me floral fabrics, antique furniture, blue and white everything, needlepoint pillows with sayings, traditional decorating, and cozy rooms over a sterile agreeable gray box any day.

But I feel like the grandmillennial trend has reached a point where people are afraid to admit that some "grandma" decor became unpopular for a reason.

My potentially controversial opinions:

• Not every antique is worth saving.
• Too much floral pattern can make a room feel chaotic instead of charming.
• Brown furniture isn't automatically beautiful just because it's old!!!! YUCK!
• Some traditional interiors feel cluttered rather than collected.
• "Maximalism" can sometimes be a polite way of saying "I don't want to edit anything." AND look hoarder-ish
• Grandmillennial style works best when it's mixed with some modern elements... i know, i know

I also think social media has created a strange competition where every room has to look like it belongs in an English countryside manor, and sometimes a simple, functional space is perfectly fine. Paging Veronabrit on IG, eeek.

What surprises me most is how often people criticize modern farmhouse, minimalist, or contemporary design while acting like grandmillennial decor is above criticism.

So here's my question: What is YOUR most unpopular grandmillennial opinion??

What trends within grandmillennial style, traditional decorating, cottagecore (is this still a thing?), coastal grandmother, or vintage decor do you secretly dislike?

I'm genuinely curious where everyone stands on this because I suspect a lot of people have opinions they're afraid to say out loud.

LETS HEAR THEM!!!!