Grace vs. Consequence: Youth Pastor issue.
I’m struggling with this one, y’all. I’m starting at a new church in literally three days and I got an FYI that our youth pastor, who’s also a coach at our local high school, handed a beer to a senior during a celebration after winning state championship.
The school resource officer isn’t pressing charges and he came clean to the parents of the student. He lost his coaching position and is moving in three months as-is. My predecessor and SPRC chair both had a serious conversation with him and he showed signs of serious repentance. They all agreed to just let him finish out his three months no harm no foul.
While I want to show grace, I feel like we also need to do something to assure the parents of the kids in our youth group that we are aware of the situation, we have taken steps to assure our kids are safe.
What would you do as an incoming pastor?