AITA For not wanting my SIL at my house anymore
I (45F) just lost my son (26m). My son is not biological my husband. And when we first found out my SIL came down to check on us. On the 2nd day she asked her brother my husband to make her a crab boil and didn’t pay for any of the food. The weeks before the memorial all my family members came down to help us and pay for items that we need. My husband’s family didn’t call or send us a card. The day of the memorial I asked everyone to wear black with an hint of sunflower due to that being the last activity we did as a family.
My SIL wore a dress with just all flowers and a sunflower like a hat and then proceeded to talk about how she is the lit auntie and how everyone wants to be around her and how she say him in her dreams. After the memorial she was flirting with my brother who is married. Then the day after the memorial my family went out to cheer my kids up my SIL waited until everyone left she sits next to me and said you looked relived I asked her what did you say. She said it again. Then talked about how my sister were looking older than there ages and how one of my sister is looking older than she is.
Then on the last day that she was here she texted me she left me something I looked at and it turned out to be champagne
Now I told my husband what she said and she told him what she said that it was an accident but never told me that she is sorry. I told my husband that she needs to leave and I don’t want her at my house.
Aita for not wanting my SIL to stay at my house anymore