u/Right_Opposite2808

for the 4 credit internship requirement in 7th sem is an actual internship compulsory?

i’m considering going in a different direction career-wise and honestly don’t really want to invest time in an internship right now 😭. if anyone has already dealt with this or any senior, is there some alternative like a project/research work/etc. that counts or someway i can manage it?

also does literally everyone end up doing an internship for this, or are there people who fulfilled the requirement some other way?

any help is appreciated thanks 🫶🏻

you can't give up manifesting btw, you're always thinking this way or that way. i don't even understand why y'all complicate it with techniques, specially when you don't have energy. if you're tired of trying to manifest something, it means you're terrible anxiously attached to it and hoping for a specific outcome. just change your thoughts about it, it's genuinely not that hard. i used to think that it's hard too but you just have to START. start flipping, don't even have to do any sessions or robotic affirming or subliminals. just flip any thought what you don't wanna experience and let go. you literally cannot give up manifesting either way you're manifesting something because you're always thinking about it. it's not some hard task that's taking a toll on you, you have been literally manifesting all your life unknowingly by thinking

you need to affirm for your self concept while manifesting an sp it's really important. not just an sp honestly you can get attached to any desire and place it on a pedestal that actually slows things down. it's very easy to eventually start doubting your power and even manifesting in general.

don't focus on them the entire day. set a routine a affirm within that and do other stuff that excites u. affirm for other things as well and most def include some time for self concept affs. self concept as in not just about being attractive, also about how u feel your luck with relationships are, specifically with sp and how u perceive manifestation and yourself as a manifestor.

also important is to not stay anxiously attached to your sp! im not saying u can't manifest while being anxious maybe u can but it makes it 10x harder because of the importance bring placed on it. it's okay if it takes a few days to detach from them keep doing your affs anyway and don't focus on it it feels true or not true, how or why. flip any thought not in line w what you want. i promise you're not running out of time, if you decide they're yours nothing can stop it. but just allow yourself to step into your power and manifest otherwise it will drain you of everything within you and ultimately make u give up or lose interest in your sp

how is there suddenly so much controversy about sp manifestation? it is JUST like every other desire. it is absolutely not morally wrong unless you perceive it as so, we all live in different versions of the reality and you're ALREADY choosing one with your thoughts. you're not "forcing" them to do anything you're just changing your thoughts to experience a version of them that you want which ALREADY exists. no one has a definite version, even we are one version to ourselves it's never ever fixed.

yes it can lead to obsession from your side sometimes, i have been there too. but the more you do it the easier it gets. best way is to balance it with self concept affirmations, sp manifestation is essentially choosing yourself. you ARE allowed to want and manifest an sp, like please omg all these imaginary rules people create about manifesting it's so annoying. and like people act like they're superior or smth for focusing on self concept and not manifesting an sp? 😭 good for you ig, pls give it a rest. let people manifest what they want that's literally the point of it.

it's all about your beliefs deep down. someone can work hard all their life and yet not be successful if they believe hard work doesn't equate success. while someone can do nothing yet be successful if they actually believe that they don't need enough effort. the belief needs to be so strong you refuse to accept anything else than that. you can do a thousand affs a day and yet nothing can happen if you believe it's useless.

the paradox here is that affirming can also be used to build the belief that it's working. i absolutely did not believe when I kept affirming and flipping thoughts about my sp. i just did it anyway and one day it came naturally. that voice deep down that kept saying negative things suddenly started saying positive thoughts and actually believing them.

most of the people on here have a problem of sp's being nonchalant and avoidant, have you ever wondered why is that? why do most people keep facing the same situations here?

i have dealt with it myself and I'm gonna try to explain a few reasons and how to go about it

1. the first thing you need to understand is that people dominantly reflect what you're thinking. you have control over people with respect to the version of them that you experience. a person can be nice to you but someone else may perceive them as mean. similarly no one is inherently avoidant or nonchalant, it's just a version you experience. someone else experiences and attached version of them it's all based on what you believe. and the more you keep complaining about that version on here and how to change it or even viewing them like that in your head, im sorry but you're changing nothing that way you will always be in this loop this way

2. the general concept of an sp being nonchalant can come from three assumptions - a negative self concept about yourself. you accept breadcrumbs and adjust all the time and go out of your way to accept things and make it work because you can't believe you can get better; second is bad self concept about relationships in general that it never works out for you and something or the other keeps happening or people breakup with you and the third reason is bad concept about men in general. with the society and social media too it's very difficult to trust men and perceive them as good in general. always use affs like "the men in my life are amazing" "they're such good people i only encounter good trustable high value men in my life"

3. placing them on a pedestal. the more u think about something all day your mind automatically places it on a pedestal and it seems like the most important thing in the world for you to get. your happiness gets completely dependent on it. very important to find other things you're excited about and affirm for self concept daily. and we want people for the feeling they produce in us, you can literally get that and better in another person too there's no need to deem them that important.

4. energy dynamic. humans are generally wired to think this way "chase or be chased" if you keep chasing you're subconsciously making it harder. DO NOT adjust or go out of your way to make things right in the 3d just let it be. focus on your internal state.

5. remember you're the power here. this is why affirming for self concept is important. YOU decide not the 3d definitely not your sp

6. keeping casual thoughts in check are very important, even more than robotic affirming or visualizing or feeling it real. it's the game changer genuinely. you're cooking and suddenly a thought like "i want my sp to cook for me someday but he would never do so much for me" NO actually he would cook and more for me, he would do anything for me. stop looking for proof and start correcting yourself. you can't just affirm 1 line all day and not actually correct casual thoughts that's literally what does the heavy lifting. bonus if u can casually imagine them w you, like while watching a movie imagine you both seeing it together. change what you expect them to act as in your head if it doesn't align with what you're affirming.

7. time. genuinely why are you in such a hurry? nothing can stop a manifestation like literally nothing as long you're both alive and you keep wanting it and doing it. you CAN'T lose someone meant for you it's like watching a movie and knowing the ending. the universe is NOT magically against you or plotting to drive y'all apart it is neutral, which is why you use people morally perceived as bad still get whatever they want.

8. giving what they said or did or the 3d too much importance. it changes every second literally. you're too quick to believe he lost feelings in a day or went from such a loving guy to an asshole but can't believe it can be the other way round. so either you believe bad relationships is the default state or you feel like you don't deserve it. change the thought.

keep saying your affirmations, do it enough so that it is real for you no matter what you see. so much that even if your sp says the opposite you feel like he's lying. so much even the worst circumstances can't trigger your state for more than a moment. so much that you can shift into it in a second and you're sure it's yours no matter what. it IS possible you just have keep choosing that state over and over and over dominantly.

two states can exist at the same time. "you wouldn't expect it to happen if u already had it, act like you already have it" it literally doesn't matter. not being able to think of both and manifest it all that is just logic and semantics which literally doesn't matter in manifesting. only focus does. even if u think "i have the text right now" and expect it to happen soon it still works. everything works. no affirming is undone or "from lack". as long u keep repeating and know what you mean behind the affirmation and have a general assumption that if u repeat it enough you will see it and it's enough you're good. it WILL happen. (even if you don't believe it works repetition works anyway) it's okay to wait or expect, as long as you're not anxiously checking every second.

and there is no need to be stressed about detachment, i was worried about it for so long because i hyperfixate on desires and affirm all the time and i thought detachment is necessary for instant results. detachment comes naturally. as someone who loves affirming best is to go on streaks or challenges for 3-4 days to affirm as much as you can all day all the time. when you get tired and can't anymore you're automatically detached you don't even have the headspace to waver anymore and its easier to flip thoughts. it gives u the window to give the manifestation space to unfold. then when u start again with renewed inspiration it is MUCH easier to persist in your end state because you repeated it so much. and there is not need to stress about feeling or getting an image either, it comes naturally eventually as well. just focus on thoughts of having your desire as much as you can all day that's the only goal no need to entertain any logical arguments.

think of it like this, you want an ice cream. you go out and see the shop near your place is closed. so you go to another place and it's closed as well. and another too. but you REALLY want an ice cream. do you give up and come back lol? you go to another place right? or you wait until tomorrow and come back again. because the desire within you is so strong your constant focus is on having it.

that's where your focus should be, on having. how you would feel or think when you had it. how will you plan things. like you don't get it if the desire is burning within you NOTHING can stop it. every single energy aligns to give you what you want because the intention is so strong.

you see a couple on the and road and for a split second see you and your sp that way and then forget about it that's manifestation. you see someone getting huge amount of money and you get a brief image of seeing that in your bank account. or you visualize a trip with friends in the shows. all of it is manifesting and in it's best form. you don't put any pressure on it by affirming all day (im not against that i do it myself but can be difficult for people who hyper fixate) no expectations and it happens out of the blue. now do that everyday. any techniques are just amplifying the state but they are not really needed if you're confident enough and trust it will come.

you guys believe it so easily when someone stops loving you or wanting you or switch up within a day and think it "happens" but not the opposite? that he can't start wanting you in a day? or change his opinion about wanting a relationship with you in a day? can you see the programming here. it comes down to two things either you believe you're not good enough or you think you have shitty luck with relationships. genuinely people are the easiest to manifest, minds change every second. every single belief if you don't like it you can change it any day.

focus on HAVING what you want. that should be your ONLY priority. if you constantly think about having something you WILL have it there is literally no other option. if you constantly keep thinking "lilies" or view it in your mind you WILL see it irl. it's the same way with a text or a confession. on the other habs same way when u keep checking his profile to see if he followed someone else., you WILL find it one day if you keep expecting it. you get what you keep seeking consistently. the only reason it gets delayed is when you pay attention to doubts, give in to it or spiral over it or think about it. you gotta brush it away over and over until it's irrelevant. same for when the focus goes to "not seeing it" you have to bring it back to "nope seeing it" it's the EASIEST explanation there's nothing more to manifesting really

as for deep rooted beliefs this is literally how you reprogram them as well. there are 4 pillars-dominant thoughts, focus and beliefs and repetition. this is why robotic affirming works so fast for most it covers all four without any chance of wavering.

i think the whole idea of conscious manifesting puts a lot of pressure on our minds, we feel like we need to micromanage every single thing in our lives with our mind and it's overwhelming and makes us so focused on whether it works or not we forget that it's our default state to create. we have been manifesting everything all our lives unknowingly and it has always worked because we weren't even aware of getting "results" or "movement" the whole hyper focus on it delays it even more.

it's important to remind yourself sometimes to take a deep breath and remember it will be okay either way<3 to let go of the control and just be. be aware of your thoughts when it comes up yes but don't have to beat yourself up all day just to get results. we will be fine either way and we don't need to put so much pressure on the mind. trust that it always works in our favour anyway.

i think the biggest lesson i learnt in manifesting is that to never think too much. the more you think, the more things you discover to think. it's a loop it goes on and on, making you doubt things, constantly seek more ways to manifest "perfectly" but in reality that's the state you start to embody. someone constantly trying to be perfect to manifest.

as someone who has a habit of overthinking I'm still practising this. whenever doubts creep up affirm think you're doing everything right. it's always working. it's so easy. everything works for you. whatever you do is perfect. you know exactly what to do.

the minute you give in to the doubt and start reacting the further down the hole you go, trying to fix things fix your mind fix the state. all it needs is living in the end mentally and thinking thoughts as if you have it.

and also I'm still testing this out, i tend to hyper fixate on things and even if i affirm robotically i do it all day long. i try to be in control always and try to micromanage my mind. it's supposed to be effortless. my results are the fastest when I let go of the control and just relax. i trust the universe to work it out. it's literally the fastest way to let go imo.

feelings don't manifest THOUGHTS DO! stop giving so much importance to what you feel, it's your brain trying to pull you back to the comfort state. if you're someone who's used to complaining and having a shitty mindset about life in general it's natural you would feel more comfortable the minute you give up. if you're uncomfortable it means ITS WORKING. you're actively rewiring your nervous system. there is no way for it to not work you have been doing this your entire life. and the more u focus on something the more u grows. if you're so focused on the negative feeling you will get more of it. snap out of it, use that energy to fuel your affirmations. the only thing feelings does is amplify your manifestation, it gives it energy that's IT. feelings can't manifest only thoughts do.

you feel bad? keep affirming anyway. you feel like it's not working? say it's working and keep affirming anyway. JUST KEEP AFFIRMING. if you feel drained just shut your mind don't think anything. once you're energized do it again.

this might look mean but I'm sorry if you don't believe in manifestation and think it's all bullcrap you're free to exit the community lol no one's forcing you to stay on here and complain all day that it never works, you're free to go and try things out irl. "it's bullshit and I have yet to see one person manifest completely" with that mindset you won't ever lol.

you're forgetting the fact that even if you take actions and do things irl (which anyone is highly encouraged to do btw) YOU STILL HAVE A MIND. guess what you're still gonna have beliefs and assumptions and they are STILL gonna manifest. no one's forcing you to have a "toxic positive" mindset and keep lying to yourself. you can tone it down, observe your reality, not complain and still get things. but no some people just love to complain and complain and blame everyone for their miseries.

YES there are things that still happen, some things that physically we can't control. but even if regulating your mind give you 10% control over your reality, your perspective, wouldn't you take it?

no one is asking you to sit at home all day and constantly meditate when you don't have your bills paid. go out there and earn, do what you have to do in the 3D. but keep your head straight don't let that get to your head to make it worse. pair manifestation with action if that helps you believe it more, it's all about your belief.

I recently fell into a loop of thinking how can I maintain my state "better". do not fall for this trap, thinking just leads to more thinking. whatever technique you use, robotic affirming for me, just keep doing it. your focus should be to be in the state for as long as possible, not how to make it better. it's already perfect, and you're doing everything right. it's always working tell yourself that.

you tell yourself what you want not what you see. feelings and images don't matter just keep the thoughts straight.

you can just affirm in small words instead of huge sentences if it feels like a task and draining.

like instead of affirming "i always get insane movements instantly" just say "insane movements" over and over and over. your brain knows what you meant. it's much easier to repeat and the brain processes in small batches not continuously so this feels much more natural.

Reminder that manifesting happens in awareness and alignment. Be aware of having your sp right NOW. in 3D, in your mind everywhere. you have them NOW - not in future not in the past, not coming soon, right NOW. everything is perfect NOW. That's it! it's done.

i'm going to try to make this as simple as I can for you guys to understand.

1. you need to decide what you want, it sounds lame but you need to have a clear idea of what is it that you want. then STICK to it no matter what. that is your end goal. accept NOTHING else other than that, and by nothing I mean nothing. if you want a relationship, do not agree to a fwb. at least not mentally. don't be like "oh he wants an fwb at least it's progress" NOPE he is in love with me. you don't accept it in your head no matter what, be delusional and ignore that crap like a madman. there is no logic in manifesting, just alignment.

2. suppose something opposite to what you want happens. you feel frustrated and say mentally "omg nothing changed" that is exactly what you're NOT gonna do. you feel sad, frustrated just sit for a moment, remember your goal. if you want it bad enough you will remember it.

3. if you want to crashout, go ahead crashout. cry, yell, scream do whatever but what you're NOT gonna do is let that affect your thoughts. you want to cry? cry saying "he is so in love me" mentally. you don't attach emotions to the 3D memory, the minute you do that it impressed the subconscious and you keep coming back to it. it would be harder to ignore in the long run. so if you wanna cry or scream do it thinking of something else.

4. whenever you wanna react to 3D remember it is just stored energy within you. you need to let it out, it is important. you can't just ignore it it's gonna boil over. go for a run, jump about, throw things but keep your thoughts straight NO MATTER WHAT. treat it like a game even if that helps, challenge your mind.

5. this might not resonate with many, but I do it personally. affirm or better yet if you have the space, command your affirmations loudly with the pent up energy. "no you WILL text me" "this is MY reality and i get whatever the hell I want ALWAYS" say it with authority, use that pent up energy. use that anger. feels a lot better.

6. whenever the old thoughts or any old memory that doesn't align with your reality comes up, instantly just say "nope doesn't matter, i don't care, not my reality" THAT'S IT. that's all you need to do. keep robotically affirming after that. or if you want revise with a new scene and replace that memory do that. there is no scope of another thought here. keep doing it as many times as it comes up, your brain is going to associate the new thought with that unwanted memory eventually and you will stop caring or even being aware about it with time.

7. yes it is possible to not be aware of the 3D. "but it's right there how do I ignore it?" do you remember a random guy beside you in the bus today? you don't right? because you don't think about him, you don't have any emotional value attached to it. that's exactly what you need to do here. you just don't think about it or attach any emotional value to it. IT IS in your control, and if you think otherwise you're just giving into the weakness your brain is trying to create by pulling you back to it's comfort miserable state.

8. you need NEED to have willpower. it's just like going to a gym everyday. you have to keep the mental discipline and no you don't need to be perfect all the time, it manifests anyway. just dominantly you need to keep your thoughts in check.

9. it gets easier to ignore the 3D with time i swear I have done it myself, you just need to do it at first anyway. just do it. don't react with your thoughts and say your affirmations. no matter what don't let it break the act in your head. you got this.

A lot of you guys are very impatient and it shows. The goal is not to get a quick text or somehow "patch" up the situation because "he was so in love with me yesterday, what happened today?" reality reflects YOUR internal state. you can patch it up with a few affirmations here and there today, what if it happens again? and it WILL because you're so insecure and giving away your power to the 3D. it is YOUR world. no matter what happens in the 3D guess what? you can't lose someone meant for you. so it's upto you to decide if your person is yours or not, or do you leave that power to the 3D and old patterns?

that being said, it is not wrong to feel that desperation to do ANYTHING and fix it somehow, i have been there and i still feel it sometimes. but that's not you speaking that's the attachment speaking. shift your internal state to security first, do affirmations that make you feel calm and powerful, meditate a bit, take a walk outside. once you feel calm then continue with your affirmations. you WILL get there even if it feels impossible.

remember the goal is NOT for you to get something in 3D. you can argue yes objectively it is, but you cannot place that much importance in your 3D mentally. it takes away your focus and power and you constantly keep validating if it worked. you need to have a general assumption about 3D something like "it changes on its own" "i don't assume time delay, i always get instant results" and move on. your goal only is to shift your state, reach a point mentally where your normal thought in a day whenever you think about your sp is that "yeah it's done. he's mine. he's so in love with me. can you see how clingy he's with me?" even if something in the 3D shows you otherwise you can take a breath and get back to your state as soon as you can. that's when you know it's DONE from your end. who cares about the 3D it changes on its own. you CANNOT give away your power. expect things to go in your favour. the minute you do the opposite, expect the worse or just say "idk" or "i hope it happens" you're leaving the power in the hands of your old patterns which I'm sure you're not fond of which is why you're doing this in the first place.

it's not about the sp, they are just a reflection of you. it's about you and your power. I know it doesn't feel nice to hear about "self concept" or "inner work" when all you want is your sp and as quickly as possible. but trust me it's not as hard as it seems. hell you don't even have to put your sp aside and do self concept first and blah blah, no you don't. do it together, you don't need to affirm on a roll every single thought. just flip it to what you want once, and then do it again later when it comes up. that's affirming too, that reprograms your mind as well. you just CANNOT think something that's against your power that's it.