Today I learned I’m not really trans
I am a trans person who didn’t come out until later in life. I have already been told many times - including by other trans people - that I’m not really seen as valid since I can’t pass, and that I make real trans women look bad by trying to present femme. Now I learned from a trans person that I’m not valid because I’ve considered detransitioning because of all of the hate I get from all sides. A real trans person would never consider detransitioning. I guess I’m never going to be seen as valid from any group.