Genuinely I have no clue, I’ve just completed the main set of dragons and have no use for most of the items beyond getting the special dragons or remarkables. I’ve been fusing all of my 10% items and then recycling them to get scales, but would it be more efficient to just recycle them as is?
My Quaker Luna has 0.2 of a braincell and says hello!
Writing this late and tired, so sorry for any unclarity. I would just like some advice as my friend isn’t very supportive of my relationship and I’d like some outside perspective.
I know doomscrolling is a common activity for a lot of people in my generation, but not me personally. I don’t usually care if others do it, but for my gf it’s a bit different.
For a little context, my gf and I (both early 20s) have been dating for a little over two years, and have known each other for more than 3. She has ADHD. We are long distance, met online not via any dating apps, and see each other a few times per year. We trust each other almost fully and share everything about our personal lives with each other. For the most part we get along very well, but have our moments like most do. My main concern now is of my gf’s addiction to doomscrolling.
At first I never saw it as an issue, I was quite naïve at the time I met her and didn’t really have my own solid morals and views at the time. Through my years of college and her personally telling me her experiences and worries and thoughts, I’ve developed some stronger feeling about most issues I was once indifferent to, one of them being the entire concept of “doomscrolling” and mindlessly consuming content. I once never really thought of it as troublesome, but as of recent I’ve become quite adverse to it. Now I’m not entirely guilty myself, as I watch my fair share of YouTube videos/shorts from my favorite creators every day and sometimes even catch myself scrolling and stop it. But my gf scrolls on Instagram, and… well if you know anything about that platform’s reels you know what I’m getting at. Not the most innocent place.
She’s told me many times herself that she knows her scrolling is oftentimes an issue for her and it prevents her from being productive. It’s basically become a part of her daily routine now; right after waking up she scrolls (usually before messaging me or anyone), at work on breaks she scrolls (which I don’t mind, a break is a break), when she gets home after work she scrolls, almost every bathroom break on our calls or whenever I afk she scrolls, every night she scrolls.
On the flip side of this habit of, she tells me that it helps her unwind, relax, and “not think” for a while. I can understand that, but I personally feel like there’s just better ways to spend that time… especially with how much she tells me she wishes she’d get more done productively. But then she gets right back to scrolling, seemingly forgetting that guilt. At times I feel it’s ok, but most of the time I feel it’s a little unnecessary…
It’s gotten to the point where she’ll forget to reply to me sometimes because she got distracted scrolling, and that upsets me the most, mainly when we’re having a full-on conversation. I know her mind is never FULLY there, as between most messages she sends there’s about 2-5 reels of filler in her head. This has caused a few spats between us, but as of now I’m just ignoring it because I don’t feel like it’s something to start another whole “discussion” about that will give her any unnecessary stress. Oh don’t even get me started on how these reels affect her mood and thoughts on things at times…
And before anyone asks, I am not trying to be controlling or trying to tell her when she can or can’t scroll on her time. It IS her own time at the end of the day, I acknowledge that, but I feel that if she’s so concerned about her lack of productivity she should seriously try to fix this habit. She’s told me before that it’s ok for me to help her in fixing it, but I don’t even know how to begin helping seriously, and it seems like every little suggestion or alert I bring up to her in regards to this gets brushed off or forgotten. I can tell she WANTS to be better, but just doesn’t have the capacity to try or something. That’s my main gripe here. But I do worry that continually bringing up her addiction will put a strain on our relationship.
So I would just like to know, AIO if I try to be persistent in getting her to quit her reel addiction, or is it really not that big of a deal?
idk I just thought this was funny, sometimes when I click too fast I get duplicate gifts from the same person, is that normal? it’s usually two but I just got three, and it does give a different gift for each one.
surely I’m not the only one?
So I don’t know why this is happening, but my pride event deco is showing a 7 day recharge, even after refreshing the game. Maybe I was clicking through my decos too fast? But my egg laying deco isn’t anywhere near this one, so I don’t know what could have caused this. I don’t even recall using this deco twice in a short span, let alone using more than one radiant scale- is this a common bug?