u/Rough-Implement8657

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Dose love actually exist??

When grand expecctations collapse it is not merely the illusion that falls ; it is the heart’s entire sense of peace that collapses with it leaving behind that cold void that resembles the shock of bewilderment
For a long time I always believed in that old.school kind of love
a love that felt like a safe haven pure of exploitation stripped of possessive motives and devoid of psychological or emotional harm I believed in a love that could exist without hidden agendas without the need to consume possess or wound
But today, amidst this contemporary ruin I find myself wrestling with the most bitter question

“Does love truly exist? “

Or was I merely projecting the purity of my own soul onto a world that sees in hearts nothing more than spoils to be plundered?
What unsettles me most is not simply the possibility that love may not exist but the realization that perhaps I have been believing in something that only ever existed within me Perhaps the tenderness, sincerity and purity I thought I was recognizing in others were merely reflections of what I carried within myself
And now I am left with this strange emptiness the feeling of having lost something I cannot even prove was ever real I cannot tell whether I am grieving the loss of love itself or the version of it I had constructed in my mind and trusted for so long
Trying to understand it again does not feel like healing It feels like standing in the ruins of something I once considered sacred staring at what remains and wondering whether there was ever anything there at all

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u/Rough-Implement8657 — 2 days ago

Invasion of privacy by my siblings

Iam currently facing severe emotional exhaustion and manipulation within my own home My brother and sister have taken it upon themselves to act as my guardians without any right to do so This manifests as constant interference in my private life judgment verbal hostility and intrusive questioning regarding my personal finances
When I attempt to set boundaries the behavior shifts into manipulative tactics My brother uses philosophical and religious debates as a smokescreen to avoid accountability for his intrusive behavior Furthermore he employs
"love bombing"using the phrase "I love you" immediately after being verbally abusive to mask his toxicity and invalidate my feelings He also actively works to turn my father against me and btw He acts out with violence when he's left to his own devices** **at home
My sister's behavior is equally damaging She deliberately acts differently online than she does in reality; she adopts a “caring” persona on social media platforms that is completely dishonest specifically to curate a public image and take screenshots frame her as the “concerned sister” but In reality she witnesses my struggles without offering any support and often seems to thrive on them
they have formed an alliance against me constantly using gaslighting and the pretense of “concern”to undermine my autonomy and portray me negatively Their behavior has reached a point of harassment: my brother follows me to my room to provoke me while my sister plays the perpetual victim I am exhausted by this constant performance and the lack of respect for my boundaries

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u/Rough-Implement8657 — 2 months ago

تعدي الخصوصية من قبل إخوتي

السلام عليكم اعاني من حصاد نفس واستنزاف في بيتي عندي اخ واخت حاطين نفسهم اوصياء علي بدون وجه حق ، تدخل في خصوصياتي، الحكم علي ، التهجم ، يسأل عن مصاريفي والتلاعب
واذا حاولت احط حدود يبدأ بقلب السالفه لمناظره فلسفيه او دينيه عشان يتهرب من كونه " حشري " والادهى يستخدم كلمة " احبك " لتغطيه الوقاحه والتدخل الكلمه تجي بعد كل مشكله يفتعلها بنفسه وبعد مايقط علي كلام مؤذي جدًا
ويحرض ابوي علي
اما اختي اذا صار بينا اي شيء بالواقع حتى لو ( سالفه مالها معنى) تحرص على انها ترد بالواقع رد مختلف تمامًا عن المواقع
يتغير اسلوبها بالمواقع 180 درجه ويصبح الطف تحرص دائمًا تكتب هالاسلوب بدال ماتخليه وجه لوجه، ليش؟ عشان تكبشر الشاشه وتكسب دورها ك " الاخت الحريصه والخايفه على اختها" وهي اول وحده تشاهد مصائبي وماتسوي شي بل العكس تتغذى عليها
حاليًا اثنينهم حلفاء ضدي وكل همهم انهم يطلعوني بمظهر تحت غطاء " احنا خايفين عليك"
واستعمالهم المستمر ل اسلوب ال gaslighting
وصلت لمرحله اشوفهم بائسين واحد يلاحقني لغرفتي وقت النوم ليستفزني والثانيه مستمره بدور الضحيه انا تعبت من هالتمثيل رابي اشياء فعلًا ملموسه وحقيقيه احمي فيها حدودي

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u/Rough-Implement8657 — 2 months ago