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I keep dying from second hand emberassment bc of their fans...

Their delusional behaviour, them refusing to acknowledge the problematic things their favs did + how their music has gone bad... and the way they just write. Idk why but Armies write so...weirdly with tons of emoji and EVERYTHING CAPITALIZED. Like damn...the whole random makes me cringe ngl.

u/Rough_Shame6787 — 14 days ago

I (20F) am exhausted by my friendship with my best friend (20F). What to do?

For more than a year, I've been the one putting in more efforts to keep the friendship alive (like reaching out, checking in, initiating hang outs and stuff, making it generally clear that I think about her). I only got a bit back from her as she is really busy with her major and partner. We talked twice about it and she promised to check in more.

Well, it's reached a point where I didn't want to anymore. It's been clear to me I got "replaced". In the past, I was her number one person, the one she went to to tell exciting stuff, vent, rant, etc. Now it's her partner. I basically get the leftovers.

She also started to get dry and ignore some messages, so I decided to match the energy. My messages per day got fewer and fewer, to the point where I went 3 days without texting her simply bc I didn't want to.

I'm gonna be honest, when she doesn't respond, I get pissed but also feel free? Like Idk how to explain it. It's like I don't think about our friendship when she doesn't text me back, but when she does, I feel anxious and really stiff and tense and wish she wouldn't have responded.

I'm just exhausted and anxious of our friendship. I feel like matching her energy didn't help that much bc she hasn't noticed anything about my shift. I mean Idk, but isn't it weird that a year ago, I used to rant and ramble and send many messages per day, but now I only send two messages every second day? I would have immediately noticed that.

Idk how to feel about the friendship exactly, but it does take a big emotional toll on me. I hate that I gave her all my love, and now I'm trying to pull it away. I sent her a sticker today that basically told her how much I care about her, and she completely ignored it. She also twice ignored messages I sent about how I miss her. Which hurt me deeply.

Idk what to say or what to think. It's nighttime, I have my period and I'm just so deeply exhausted. I know she is busy, I know she has her own life. But I'm so tired of being the one who cares and loves more.

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u/Rough_Shame6787 — 1 month ago

Anyone else have a sibling that gets mad when you don't do sth the way they want to?

My sister is just like that. She makes me do sth, I do it, she gets angry.

Just today, she made me help her fan-dry her several brushes (at 11 pm mind you). I did, nearly burned my hands. The brushes didn't end up completely dry, and she also specifically told me to dry them "a bit". But then she got soooooo mad about them not being 100% dry, threw the stuff off my table, etc.

I have learnt the trick of ignoring her, but it still gets under my skin.

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u/Rough_Shame6787 — 1 month ago

Veifei - ending thoughts? SPOILERS

I'm so invested into Veifei, but I can't stop thinking about how they'll end... Honestly, I can't see them having a happy ending. Vein is an antagonist, he is against Shiguang and all that stuff. Xia Fei, however, is fond of them...but who is he fonder of, his boss or his new friends?!

Also, regarding the new episode. We see Xia Fei visiting the Shiguang shop, and I'm so sure that it was Vein or Liu Xiao who sent him there (maybe as a spy).

I'm my head, I can see it playing out like that: Xia Fei has to choose between Vein and Shiguang, and ends up siding with Shiguang. BUT I HATE THAT ENDING!

Might sound crazy, but I do kinda hope Vein will die? Bc ngl I can't see him being alive. But it has to be a very satisfying death, and I want him to create much chaos beforehand!

Anyway, those are just my two cents. But I'm very excited to see how their relationship is going to play out. What do ya'll think?

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u/Rough_Shame6787 — 2 months ago
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Help me find a scene!

Sorry if this is against the rules, but it's been on my mind for days.
I don't know if it's SPECIFICALLY an anime, but it might be. Anyway the scene goes like this:
Person A is wearing a I think blindfold or sth similar, sth that hides their power. They're fighting against Person B (who has a sword). Person B swings the sword, and with the tip of the blade they kind of rip the blindfold (?) off, and then there is a sky and the blindfold (?) being carried away by the wind.

I already tried Google and Youtube, but they only showed me Gojo (it is not him). Hope someone can help me here, thanks!!!

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u/Rough_Shame6787 — 3 months ago

My (20F) little sister (9F) drives me insane...what to do?

I seriously don't know what to do. She is entitled, spoiled and ill-mannered. Infront of teachers she acts so sweet and innocent, but at home she is awful. Today, my teenager sister told her to put away her (little sisters) stuff and I chimed in that she then has to do two exercises for school. Lil sis went on a rampage, cried, screamed how she didn't want to etc. Like...she refuses to put away HER OWN THINGS. I understand complaining or such, but she was really screaming and crying, claiming we want too much from her and such. She went on yelling how she hates us, how she doesn't want any sisters, blah blah. I'm seriously so exhausted from her. I tried gentle parenting but ngl it doesn't help in any way, I tried punishments, she continues screaming...what the fuck am I supposed to do

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u/Rough_Shame6787 — 4 months ago

Some engines are insane...

Watched a short about how someone interpreted Heesungs / Evans debut MV (ROD). Thought it was a cool theory, and then I came across this comment...how insane does one have to be?! Like, are ya'll that bored with your lives? Leave that poor guy alone, he left the group, he wants to go solo which is totally understandable and acceptable.

It reminds me of the whole thing with when Woojin left Skz and he received so much hate and was the victim of false accusations. Fans have to learn to leave ex-members alone.

If you are not there to support the person, THEN JUST LEAVE. What's so hard to get here?! Please tell me I'm not the only one shocked by this...

u/Rough_Shame6787 — 4 months ago

This is really emberassing for me tbh. My parents are from Chechnya, but I was born and raised in a western country. I do speak Chechen daily, but also with a mix of Russian and the other language. But I'm definitely not fluent in it! So, what are the best ways to learn it? I think its such a waste for me not to be able to speak my own mother tongue!

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u/Rough_Shame6787 — 6 months ago