u/Royal-Gamer-420

Guess what? I think I’m still stuck on my first school crush 💀

Everyone had that one person during school, right? First love, first crush, whatever you want to call it.

Well, mine was completely one-sided. And the funniest part?

I never even talked to her in school.

I first noticed her during prayer time. She used to host the prayer for a few days when we were around 7th, 8th, 9th standard. Somehow, I just developed a crush on her.

We were in a co-ed school, but boys and girls had separate classes, so I never really got a chance to talk to her.

And then came tuition.

Everyone was going to tuition around that time, and I thought, "Okay, maybe I'll finally get a chance to talk to her."

Nope.

The moment I joined, they separated the tuition timings for boys and girls.

My luck was absolutely cooking. 💀

Anyway, school days passed. She moved to another school for 11th and 12th, and I somehow still missed her.

And don't ask me:

«"Bro, how can you have feelings for someone you've never even talked to?"»

Because honestly...

I have absolutely no idea.

I don't have an answer for that either. 😂

Then I joined college around 2021 and eventually almost forgot about her.

Until one random day, I somehow found her Instagram.

I sent her a request.

And she accepted.

At that point, I was like:

"Wait... what? She actually accepted?"

I had always assumed she was probably the quiet/serious type who wouldn't even bother.

A few days later, I finally gathered enough courage to send a simple "Hi."

She replied.

But the replies were so short that it felt like I was talking to ChatGPT running on a 16K context window with the token limit about to hit. 💀

We chatted occasionally for a few months, but it never really became a proper conversation. I never asked for her number, never really tried to take things further, and honestly, I probably just didn't have the maturity or social skills back then.

Looking back, I was basically running on:

Courage: 10%

Overthinking: 90%

Social skills: 404 Not Found

Then one completely random day...

She blocked me.

No idea why.

I thought maybe she was preparing for her college entrance exams or had something going on, so I didn't push it.

And then...

Two years passed.

Fast forward to 2026.

I randomly sent her another Instagram request.

She accepted.

I said hi.

And this time...

She replied almost immediately. And with an actual lengthy reply.

My brain immediately went:

"Wait... where was THIS version of you two years ago?" 😭

I didn't continue the conversation much after that because I started overthinking everything again.

But here's the weird part.

Even after all these years, I feel like I still kinda have a thing for her.

Which is honestly ridiculous because we barely even talked in school, and even after that, our conversations were never that deep.

Maybe it's nostalgia. Maybe it's the fact that she was my first crush. Maybe I'm just emotionally attached to an idea of her rather than the actual person.

I genuinely don't know.

And honestly, there's another reason I never really tried anything back then.

I wasn't confident in myself at all. I was overweight, didn't think I looked good, and had basically zero confidence when it came to talking to girls. At that age, I also didn't really have the maturity to understand my own feelings, let alone express them to someone else.

I know some people will say, "Who cares about looks or body?"

But when you're in school, things don't always work that logically. You're young, insecure, and you overthink everything. I didn't know how she would react, and I didn't even know how to approach her properly.

So I just stayed silent.

And somehow, that silence lasted all these years. 💀

Now I'm older and I can look back at it and laugh at how stupidly complicated I made everything in my own head.

But I'm still curious...

Has anyone else ever had feelings for someone from school that somehow survived for years, even though you barely talked to them?

Please tell me I'm not the only dumbass here. 💀

Guess what? I think I’m still stuck on my first school crush 💀

Everyone had that one person during school, right? First love, first crush, whatever you want to call it.

Well, mine was completely one-sided. And the funniest part?

I never even talked to her in school.

I first noticed her during prayer time. She used to host the prayer for a few days when we were around 7th, 8th, 9th standard. Somehow, I just developed a crush on her.

We were in a co-ed school, but boys and girls had separate classes, so I never really got a chance to talk to her.

And then came tuition.

Everyone was going to tuition around that time, and I thought, "Okay, maybe I'll finally get a chance to talk to her."

Nope.

The moment I joined, they separated the tuition timings for boys and girls.

My luck was absolutely cooking. 💀

Anyway, school days passed. She moved to another school for 11th and 12th, and I somehow still missed her.

And don't ask me:

«"Bro, how can you have feelings for someone you've never even talked to?"»

Because honestly...

I have absolutely no idea.

I don't have an answer for that either. 😂

Then I joined college around 2021 and eventually almost forgot about her.

Until one random day, I somehow found her Instagram.

I sent her a request.

And she accepted.

At that point, I was like:

"Wait... what? She actually accepted?"

I had always assumed she was probably the quiet/serious type who wouldn't even bother.

A few days later, I finally gathered enough courage to send a simple "Hi."

She replied.

But the replies were so short that it felt like I was talking to ChatGPT running on a 16K context window with the token limit about to hit. 💀

We chatted occasionally for a few months, but it never really became a proper conversation. I never asked for her number, never really tried to take things further, and honestly, I probably just didn't have the maturity or social skills back then.

Looking back, I was basically running on:

Courage: 10%

Overthinking: 90%

Social skills: 404 Not Found

Then one completely random day...

She blocked me.

No idea why.

I thought maybe she was preparing for her college entrance exams or had something going on, so I didn't push it.

And then...

Two years passed.

Fast forward to 2026.

I randomly sent her another Instagram request.

She accepted.

I said hi.

And this time...

She replied almost immediately. And with an actual lengthy reply.

My brain immediately went:

"Wait... where was THIS version of you two years ago?" 😭

I didn't continue the conversation much after that because I started overthinking everything again.

But here's the weird part.

Even after all these years, I feel like I still kinda have a thing for her.

Which is honestly ridiculous because we barely even talked in school, and even after that, our conversations were never that deep.

Maybe it's nostalgia. Maybe it's the fact that she was my first crush. Maybe I'm just emotionally attached to an idea of her rather than the actual person.

I genuinely don't know.

And honestly, there's another reason I never really tried anything back then.

I wasn't confident in myself at all. I was overweight, didn't think I looked good, and had basically zero confidence when it came to talking to girls. At that age, I also didn't really have the maturity to understand my own feelings, let alone express them to someone else.

I know some people will say, "Who cares about looks or body?"

But when you're in school, things don't always work that logically. You're young, insecure, and you overthink everything. I didn't know how she would react, and I didn't even know how to approach her properly.

So I just stayed silent.

And somehow, that silence lasted all these years. 💀

Now I'm older and I can look back at it and laugh at how stupidly complicated I made everything in my own head.

But I'm still curious...

Has anyone else ever had feelings for someone from school that somehow survived for years, even though you barely talked to them?

Please tell me I'm not the only dumbass here. 💀

A friend studying at REC told me some hostel rooms have 8 people crammed into a single room. Is that even manageable, or just straight up congested? Feels less like a hostel and more like one of those overcrowded lodges where way more people are squeezed in than the room was as built for.

It's probably fun on normal days - easy to make friends, always someone around. But during exams, that same setup turns into a nightmare. No privacy, no quiet space to focus. And students need privacy sometimes too, just like anyone else.

Also, for people saying "just stay outside if you don't like it" - that's not fair advice for a fresher. An 18 year old fresh out of school with zero idea about Chennai isn't going to navigate PG hunting alone. And staying outside with 3-4 sharing usually costs more than the hostel anyway.

Hostel guidelines need an update - reasonable room capacity and attached bathrooms should be basic, not a luxury.

If anyone's actually studied there or knows more, would love to hear if this is accurate. And please share this if you can, hoping the management actually notices and fixes it.

A friend studying at REC told me some hostel rooms have 8 people crammed into a single room. Is that even manageable, or just straight up congested? Feels less like a hostel and more like one of those overcrowded lodges where way more people are squeezed in than the room was built for.

It's probably fun on normal days - easy to make friends, always someone around. But during exams, that same setup turns into a nightmare. No privacy, no quiet space to focus. And students need privacy sometimes too, just like anyone else.

Also, for people saying "just stay outside if you don't like it" - that's not fair advice for a fresher. An 18 year old fresh out of school with zero idea about Chennai isn't going to navigate PG hunting alone. And staying outside with 3-4 sharing usually costs more than the hostel anyway.

Hostel guidelines need an update - reasonable room capacity and attached bathrooms should be basic, not a luxury.

If anyone's actually studied there or knows more, would love to hear if this is accurate. And please share this if you can, hoping the management actually notices and fixes it.

Hey, so I have been working in this migration process for a while. This task is very hectic and needs more effort to migrate. Is there any automation tool that we can create to migrate loveable to local? Or are there already any existing tools?

It will be useful for me to know about that.

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