I 23F had a good date and now the guy doesn’t seem interested
On Saturday a guys liked my profile and complimented me. I gave a flirty compliment back and he asked if I was free the next day for a date. This is a super quick turnaround in my opinion but on my profile I said that I like spontaneous plans😅 I was off on Sunday and didn’t have any plans so I said yes to going out with him. I asked if we could call later that night to confirm the plans, and to make sure he was a real person and the call went well.
He was pretty slow to responding/texting which really bothered me because if we are going to do something last minute I feel like you at least need to be responsive. Nonetheless, we texted Sunday morning and everything was still good. We plan to meet at 2, and when 2:00 comes I don’t hear from him. I’m running late and I was going to communicate that but I wanted to see if he was going to text me saying he was there or if I had some time to make it there. He tells me he’s on the way, I say I’m walking up, and I few minutes go by and I hadn’t heard from him. I ask for his eta and didn’t hear anything back so after a few minutes of waiting I decided I’m done and started to walk towards the main street to head home. As I’m walking I run into him and we head to the restaurant we were supposed to be going to.
I kind of have an attitude but I’m trying not to express it. I have an attitude because he doesn’t seem to take communication seriously and if I hadn’t seen him I was gonna go home. We walk for a little bit and try to plot our next move. The restaurant we intended to go to had an extremely long wait time and wasn’t taking reservations so we had to pivot. We end up walking to a steakhouse I recommended and get seated there. All while we are walking, I’m trying to plan my escape because I’m not feeling it at the moment.
Before we walk into the steakhouse I disclosed to him that if i didn’t see him i would’ve went home. After I said that I could feel that he felt bad. I was being stubborn and didn’t order anything at the table but a drink. I didn’t want him to buy me anything because I was still kind of upset and wasn’t feeling good about things. As the time goes on at the steakhouse, things start to go well and the conversation flows well. We’re laughing and relating and enjoying our time. I ended up feeling comfortable enough to order and got steak bites. After the steakhouse we get dessert somewhere else and keep talking and things really are looking up compared to the beginning.
When we get done with dessert, i call my Lyft 2 of my drivers cancel on me. He has an idea that he’ll order the uber to his house and i can get my Lyft from there. And that what we ended up doing. I went to this house and came inside and the ordered my Lyft. We sat on the couch together but nothing happened. No kiss or hug or anything. When my Lyft gets there we hug and I go and the I text him when I made it home.
When I make it home he texts me saying how he found me easy to talk to and attractive and that’s a dangerous combo. When we were together He expressed how he enjoyed the date and would like a second one but it feels like I’m pulling teeth rn. I know he wasn’t very responsive before but I barely can get one text a day out of him. Granted it’s only been a few days but is this how people act when they really enjoyed the first date? I feel like I can’t read him and I can’t tell if things will go somewhere from here or not. I need help analyzing his texts and what he may be thinking/up to rn. Check out our messages for context on how we communicated previously*