u/SNAILLLLSSS

Sorry if formatting is weird, i’m on mobile.

We had been friends for 5 years and briefly dated when we first met .. it only lasted a month but ultimately didn’t work out as we both preferred to stay friends. I’ve not had any form of attraction towards him since the initial brief attraction, and he’s never shown any other signs of interest towards me over the years that i’ve noticed.

His fiancée had been pregnant for around 7 months by the time this happened with a baby girl, and he had admitted to me that their relationship had gotten rocky. His fiancée had come to him several times upset and jealous because of me which was odd as we’ve never had any issues in the past, but then again she was pregnant so I understood. He was pretty pissed at her, but ultimately I took her side because pregnancy hormones can be a bitch, i’ve heard. I told him to just be understanding and for them to communicate through it and that she can’t necessarily help how she feels. I even offered to stop talking to him less to try and make her feel more secure to which they both said no to. Or i’m assuming she said no, anyways, as I got her answer from him.

I assumed her hormones might’ve been the issue, but now that i’m thinking about it I don’t know. My friend and I were talking about some nonsense pretty late at night around 3AM — NOT in ANY form of sexual way, and out of nowhere he mentioned that his stomach was hairy (??? what) and sent a picture to show me (didn’t ask) and he was in his underwear COMPLETELY hard with his hairy ass stomach showing.

I didn’t say shit, I didn’t know how to respond so I just completely ignored the picture and just diverted the topic onto something else without mentioning it. He thankfully went along with it. I told him I was going to bed a couple minutes after but it was mostly just to get away from him. Couldn’t sleep for hours after that, and I was honestly starting to make myself doubt if I even saw it properly because I didn’t want to believe, but I definitely did. I confronted him about it when he woke up and he kept denying it. This was on snapchat (I know, flame me lol) so snaps can’t be reopened after a certain amount of time. To clarify, I could see that he had sent the snap, but it wouldn’t let me hold down on it to reopen the contents.

He eventually finally admitted it after I kept flaming him and he said “i’m sorry.” and something else I cannot remember, but I screenshotted the messages and sent them to his fiancée and told her what happened. She thankfully, THANKFULLY, believed me. I completely dropped my ex friend. I have him blocked on every platform I can think of. I still do talk to his fiancée sometimes, just brief light chats here and there, but always making sure not to bring ‘that’ up. Months later, i’m unsure on whether or not it was her pregnancy that initially caused their relationship to get rocky or if she knew something I didn’t. It completely blindsided me.

The part that annoys me the most, though, is the fact that she stayed with him. It’s been 3 months since this happened, she’s had her baby, and they post on facebook together. I’m just pissed that a beautiful ass woman with so much potential like her is with some dumbass stupid fucking jobless cheating bum who stays on his fucking ps5 all day and doesn’t even attempt to get a job to help support them or make an effort … WHILE she’s actively in nursing school. I’m not mad at her, just the situation. Oh, did I mention he’s 21 and she’s 20? It all makes sense now, doesn’t it?

Anyways, just needed to vent and get that off my chest. Frozen meal. Salmon, rice, and 3 measly bits of broccoli.