Used to be on a bad alignment for 20 000 km / 12 000 miles. Now seeing this balding after another 30 000 km/ 18 000 miles
Will drive on holiday for 2000 km / 1200 miles after wich I'll be driving just 1000 km / 600 miles untill change to winter tyres.
Besides the understaff in police, why would it be a bad idea to let police search everyone's home once in a while to make sure there are no kidnappings, illegal drugs/guns, house violations, safety concerns, etc.
Summary:
We know eachother almost 10 years. Were just friends, but I really liked ideas/way of life and she inspired me. So she became my best friend. She made me feel good, but she doesn't want kids (i do) "except if very very maybe she would find the perfect guy", she only likes older men "except very maybe a emotional intelligent and adult man from my age like you". But I heard from a drunk friend (accidentally) that she would 'do me', i'm husband material. And her dad thinks i'm the perfect son in law. But I'm scared this will break the friend(ship/group) if it doesn't work out. Any advice/experience?
English isn't my first language, i use "as a direct quote", and 'as words that are not exactly the word but i don't know a better English word'
We got to know each other from school, first few years we were just classmates, and are now almost 7 in the same friend group. We are both quite 'wise'/older for our age and friend group. When they were drinking we were getting close by doing and talking about things old/'lame' people would do, a bit nerdy even.
Now the past few years we would go on just dining evenings (restaurants & McDonald's & ice cream etc.) Making people almost think we were in a relationship. In this time I was going through some rough patches, and could only talk to her about it as she made me feel safe/good about being 'broken'.
In this time she git a special place in my heart, but nothing sexual nor having the idea of having a relationship. Especially because I knew we weren't a good match as she "doesn't wanna have kids", and when she talked about relationships/crushes she talked in the sense of having an older boyfriend(/eventually husband). (Which I understand as I like older women normally.)
But in the many many hours of talking to each other she said things like "very very veryyyy maybe I would wanna have kids, with the right man. A man like u that would not drop me as a stay at home mom, and would actually be active in life". Which at the time I just thought of a interesting thing she said, but only now am starting to question.
I have been over quite a few times and helped her dad with typical son things (as I was a sort of stand-in/lost son). And he started to talk about how i'm an amazing man and my future wife and dad in law.
As of last week I was with a (common) (my male best) friend drinking, and he started to talk about how she once was asking questions about me and my love life. And that she (in a drunken state) said she looks for a bf "as handsome as (me)" and after another female friend got in bed with a less attractive man... she said she wouldn't mind to go in bed with me. Now the day after he said to never ever tell her he said that... So I came here for help.
Now I might be reading too much into it, but it makes me wonder if I might just have to shoot a shot with her. But i'm scared it will break the friendship and maybe even the friend group into 2. I know I have to choose it eventually, i'm just asking if anyone got into a same predicament/situation and if they have experience or any idea. Should I just ignore it?