u/Sample-Bat-919

I bought $500 worth of stuff but most was out of stock, ended up only being like $150. Says on the company's website it's been charged and finalized, but affirm still says $500 and is still making me pay every two weeks. At this point I've paid more than the order actually is so affirm owes me a refund, and if it's not fixed in 2 days I'm looking at having to pay another extra $100+. Chat is useless and says they can't do anything. I tried the phone # but the rep said I have to contact the merchant which makes no sense because they have finalized it there's nothing they can do, it's just affirm that hasn't processed it yet. Please help? Do I have to risk losing my 4k credit line with affirm and stop paying until they fix it? Or do I have to keep paying and hope they refund me some day????

Since my post was removed for too many details, at the end of the day I'm completely alone and have absolutely no one. I have my 5 year old daughter and no one else. I haven't hung out with a single person other than partners In almost a decade. And Its always just so depressing and heartbreaking knowing that no one knows me truly. My daughter has no friends because I don't have any friends for her to play with their kids. It's just an endless depressing cycle.

This is very long but I'm so fucking lonely and have no one to vent to... I'm 26, have a 5 yo daughter, work overnights, lots of mental health issues, no substance abuse. I have absolutely zero friends. I haven't hung out with anyone aside from whoever I'm dating at the time for over 7 years. Only one old friend I text, and it's once a month. At work Im also alone. I live with my mom, her bf, and my brother, they all absolutely despise me and I haven't talked to my brother in 15 years, the only reason I'm there rn is bc I cant afford to leave my daughter.

My first bf of 3 years: we broke up after his dad tried to SA me and they didn't believe me. Then My daughters dad became an addict and stole everything I ever owned. Which is when I initially moved back with my mom. Then after a few flings I found my current partner (29M). We're almost 2 years together, but unfortunately things have been crumbling. I loved him so fuckng much.

I feel no love towards him anymore, I feel disgust. He doesn't work. He plays games all day every day. Hes gained almost 80 pounds and we stopped being intimate bc he says he's uncomfortable with his weight. He's done other things that are big bpd triggers, and we've worked on them together. I'm absolutely not easy to deal with, and I feel so much nostalgia and can't stop crying at the thought of losing the only person who knows me. The only person I've spoken more than a pages worth in years. The person my daughter has become "friends" with. Ik his family, and his niece and nephew are my daughters Only friends and she'll lose all of that too...

But he just won't work. He worked one week the entire relationship and he didn't get me anything. He bought liquor for a party he went to and didn't get me a single flower. He's never gotten me anything. Ever. I'm not materialistic but I just want someone who can get a job, and I can finally move out with and be happy. I'll never be happy at my mom's place, and I can't do it on my own. He helps in other ways but I'm just so burned out of having to pay everything if we want to go out. He's okay staying at home but am I fucking wrong for wanting to do fun things ??!

I wish he'd get a job but I fear it's too late. He reminds me of my brother, just watching anime, playing games, not working. Not going to school, no motivation, no real effort. Idk what to do. I feel I'll never find anyone who puts up with me, I'm a little overweight and not very attractive, I only earn a little over min wage. I just feel so fucking lost and lonely and like I'm at the end of what my life is supposed to be and that I failed at it.

This is very long but I'm so fucking lonely and have no one to vent to... I'm 26, have a 5 yo daughter, work overnights, lots of mental health issues, no substance abuse. I have absolutely zero friends. I haven't hung out with anyone aside from whoever I'm dating at the time for over 7 years. Only one old friend I text, and it's once a month. At work Im also alone. I live with my mom, her bf, and my brother, they all absolutely despise me and I haven't talked to my brother in 15 years, the only reason I'm there rn is bc I cant afford to leave my daughter.

My first bf of 3 years: we broke up after his dad tried to SA me and they didn't believe me. Then My daughters dad became an addict and stole everything I ever owned. Which is when I initially moved back with my mom. Then after a few flings I found my current partner (29M). We're almost 2 years together, but unfortunately things have been crumbling. I loved him so fuckng much.

I feel no love towards him anymore, I feel disgust. He doesn't work. He plays games all day every day. Hes gained almost 80 pounds and we stopped being intimate bc he says he's uncomfortable with his weight. He's done other things that are big bpd triggers, and we've worked on them together. I'm absolutely not easy to deal with, and I feel so much nostalgia and can't stop crying at the thought of losing the only person who knows me. The only person I've spoken more than a pages worth in years. The person my daughter has become "friends" with. Ik his family, and his niece and nephew are my daughters Only friends and she'll lose all of that too...

But he just won't work. He worked one week the entire relationship and he didn't get me anything. He bought liquor for a party he went to and didn't get me a single flower. He's never gotten me anything. Ever. I'm not materialistic but I just want someone who can get a job, and I can finally move out with and be happy. I'll never be happy at my mom's place, and I can't do it on my own. He helps in other ways but I'm just so burned out of having to pay everything if we want to go out. He's okay staying at home but am I fucking wrong for wanting to do fun things ??!

I wish he'd get a job but I fear it's too late. He reminds me of my brother, just watching anime, playing games, not working. Not going to school, no motivation, no real effort. Idk what to do. I feel I'll never find anyone who puts up with me, I'm a little overweight and not very attractive, I only earn a little over min wage. I just feel so fucking lost and lonely and like I'm at the end of what my life is supposed to be and that I failed at it.

I remember there being a point where coaches now talk to you about points/retention before 5 points, does anyone know how many points they do that at? 3.5 or 4?