u/Sassy_soda1316

After my second delivery , I think I lost my memory in daily chores.

Like move to a different room and forget what I came for.

Most of the things just slip out of my mind.

How can I not forget things

After my second delivery , I think I lost my memory in daily chores.

Like move to a different room and forget what I came for.

Most of the things just slip out of my mind.

Qr

I just got started on Azure app service. I m unable to make out key valut and other terms.

How can this novice get started on Azure app services .

Thanks in Advance

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34F in a arranged marriage. My 37M husband is from a different upbringing. I don't get his childhood or background.

I didn't cook much before marriage. Nor a person of interested self care.

It's been 8 years and my husband grew resentful of me not listening and implementing his words.

I feel overwhelmed and unable to manage household chores, cooking and kids like his mom.

He likes only food made by his mom and eats food made by others just because body needs food.

I agree I lack consistency that the reason I wasn't able to reduce weight and after two kids I gained evn more that I m morbidly obese.

He is embarassed of me and grown alot of contempt. He can't speak in normal tone. It's either dismissal or belittlement. I m always on foot with alot of things running on my mind. I did miss his words and quite forgetful.

He believes I have all excuses why can't I be like his mom who managed everything well without no help. Or be like his sister who is confident, takes good self care and earnings as well.

He feels more comfortable with my younger cosister cause they are from the same hometown. Sometimes if there is misunderstanding between us. It's my fault.

I can't express my feelings - cry infornt or show anger then we would get angry over that. Cause my mil has been through DV and never missed one chores even if she was bleeding.

He and mil tell that I havent been through anything that she has but I still complain despite of having so much of help - maid, washing machine and my parents to take care of kids. Still the house is not spotless and I m not physically appealing. My cooking is out of the topic nothing I do is good.

I love my husband and his love language is different. From where he came humiliation of the spouse is common. Even physical hitting is normal but my husband never did it . I know I love him alot and he does a lot of me which is not conventional but this has been too overwhelming for me to just shut my mouth and follow as instructed.

I don't have confidence to take a stand cause my parents help me every single day in my laws place to get me going and have a job so that I m financial independent.

All I want is some being respect and some treatment like a equal human being and my husband talks so much with his family on phone and evn with neighbour but not with me.

I begged and asked him to talk and I also asked beyond my ability to contribute little to domestic expenses - am I anything. I didn't get a answer that said yes you matter.

I want my husband who talks to me and let's me cry when I m sad. I want my husband to desire me. I can't talk to my husband any of this he doesn't listen. He dismiss my pains and calls me old lady for having scatica or foot pain. Of course those issue are from my obesity. He lets me buy things for weightloss but hates it when he is not seeing any result.

He likes the slim tiny waist woman which I can never be even if I lost weight as I would be a skeleton after loosing weight because of my pear shaped body type. He completely despises sagging skin so I don't think loose weight would be enough. I can't spend on getting a tummy tuck or liposuction.

I love him and I can't bear the thought of even a single day without him. If he gets angry and doesn't talk to me , I can't even eat food cause my stomach would close.

Woman🤷‍♀️/girl🏃‍♀️/ aunty 💁‍♀️/ grandmother👵 said to you

Which triggered rage 🤬in you.

What was that something that made you feel less but kept calm and went on with life to avoid argument.