u/Saveyourtears111

Sorry for all These posts.. but i need to talk to someone because i don’t have anyone to talk to about manifestation.
What if it’s just my ego that wants him back? What if that’s why I miss him? Why can’t I be delulu anymore?
Last year I convinced myself that maybe we weren’t meant to be together after 4 years… and somehow I manifested our breakup.
4 years ago I “manifested” my relationship with him because I was convinced we were meant for each other.
And now? I can’t be delulu again… why? I can’t convince myself that we’re meant to be together and that he might come back and things could be fixed and go back to being perfect like before, because I’m afraid a crack has formed. What if it’s just my ego wanting him? How do I tell the difference? Am i the creator of my reality even it its from ego?..

What was the moment that convinced you free will doesn’t exist?

Hi everyone!
I’ve believed in manifestation for years, and I’ve manifested many things. Sometimes it’s honestly been almost scary how accurately things happened exactly the way I had visualized them.
Lately, though, I’ve been feeling exhausted (maybe because I’m in my luteal phase? 😅). I feel tired of manifesting. I’ve been trying to manifest my ex back, and it keeps turning into a hot-and-cold situation. He comes back, then pulls away again.
I know the change has to happen within me. But because I’m feeling so drained, I’m starting to develop limiting beliefs and doubts about whether change is actually possible and THAT FREE WILL DOESNT EXIST.
Would anyone be willing to share success stories or experiences that inspired you? I’ve already read a lot of posts here, but many of them stop at “they texted me” or something similar. In my case, my SP seems to have changed a lot. He’s adopted a new outlook on life where he thinks things like he believes it’s just his ego wanting me, and that makes it difficult for me to create a new story about him or find something that really clicks in my mind.
I guess I’m just looking for some inspiration and hope from people who have been through something similar.
Thank you. ❤️

Looking back, I’ve noticed that every person I’ve ever manifested (both consciously and unconsciously) from sp to friends eventually left my life. Sometimes it took years, but it never lasted forever.
I only realized this pattern now, and I’m genuinely curious why it happens. I don’t think it’s a limiting belief, because I only noticed now after years.
Has anyone else experienced this? Why do you think this happens? Is there an explanation from a manifestation perspective?

I started doing robotic affirmations to manifest my ex back, and it feels like every time he gets closer, he pulls away again.
Right now we’re on good terms, but whenever he does something nice for me or seems to be getting closer, something else happens that disappoints me or makes me upset. I don’t even react to him directly i just end up thinking to myself, “Who the hell does he think he is to treat me like this?”
How do I move forward from here?
I can’t seem to reach the point where I genuinely believe we’ll get back together like we used to. It feels like something inside me has broken, and I’m scared that it’s beyond repair. I know this is what’s making my manifestation waver and its all a out EIYPO but it really feels like my ego is constantly fighting against what I’m trying to believe.
Has anyone been through something similar? How did you get out of that inner battle and get yourself back into the right mindset?

I need some advice.
My ex broke up with me (the first time because of mistakes I made), then we got close again, and he ended things a second time. We actually left things on good terms.
Lately I’ve been feeling really positive. The second breakup was easier for me because I believed I could manifest the relationship I wanted, so I’ve been trying to stay in a good mindset.
I muted his Instagram stories, but the other day I ended up seeing one where he was with another girl, and there was a comment that made me overthink. Then he texted me and asked if I wanted to go to the movies. We went, and he hugged me pretty much the entire time. He never mentioned this girl, but I did see a photo of her on his phone. It could honestly just be a friend because they are a big group of friends.
What bothers me is that, after our breakup, posting photos with another girl in a way that could easily make me worry feels a bit disrespectful. At the same time, he still reaches out to me, so part of me thinks she probably isn’t anything serious to him.
Today I ended up crying. I really want to ask him if he’s seeing her because I feel like I need to know for my own peace of mind and self-respect. But I’m also scared that asking will ruin my manifestations or put me in a negative mindset.
I’m stuck between two thoughts:
If I don’t ask, my mind fills in the blanks and I keep making up scenarios, which makes me anxious and im afraid to manifest something im worried about.
If I do ask, I’m afraid to ruin my manifestations because I don’t have to care about the 3d and react
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Would you ask for clarity, or would you leave it alone? I’m looking for honest advice, whether you believe in manifestation or not.

Do you know what the real problem is?
(This is about my SP/ex.)

Part of me genuinely feels like something broke between us. I’m afraid that if we get back together, I’ll constantly worry that they could leave again. I’m afraid I’ll be anxious that things will never feel the way they did before, and that I’ll never have the same sense of security I once had in the relationship.
I keep thinking that until I change these fears, assumptions, and limiting beliefs within myself, nothing will change on the outside. EIYPO. But where do I even start? Please don’t just say “work on your self-concept.” How exactly do you change these fears? How do you truly believe that a relationship that has been broken once can come back stronger, healthier, and even better than before?

I’d really appreciate any advice or personal experiences. Thank you.

I really need some help because I feel like I’m spiraling and I don’t know how to get out of it.

My ex and I broke up in February. In May, he came back exactly like I had visualized, but after two weeks he left again, saying he wasn’t ready, felt empty, and that I deserved more. I keep thinking that I manifested him coming back, but I didn’t know how to manifest him staying.

One of my biggest fears right now is a 3P situation. I’m trying not to obsess over it because I don’t want to manifest it, but the fear is still there.

The thing is, he was honestly the perfect boyfriend, and I was a great girlfriend too, until I started taking him for granted. Last year I got into a habit of listening to sad songs, thinking about how different we were, and worrying that maybe we weren’t meant to be together. He’s younger than me, and I started telling myself that we were growing in different directions. Over time, it felt like those thoughts became my reality. He changed, our connection changed, and we seemed to have less and less in common.

Now I don’t know how to go back. I can’t access that feeling I used to have that he loved me. I can’t picture him the way I used to. It’s like my mind keeps telling me, “That’s not true anymore. Things have changed.”

I stay busy with work during the week and that helps, but weekends are a disaster because I have too much time to think. Today has been especially hard.

I believe manifestation works, but I’m exhausted. I don’t even know where to start anymore. I’ve been affirming, but it feels forced and unnatural.

Please, if you’ve been through something similar, can you share practical advice that actually helped you? Not just “focus on yourself,” but specific things you did to stop spiraling and regain your confidence. I’m feeling really sad and could use some support right now.

Thank you.

Has anyone had an ex come back and truly change, with the relationship actually lasting afterward?

I keep seeing stories about exes returning, but almost never any long-term updates. Did they stay? Did things really improve? Or did they end up leaving again?

Mine came back, but then left again, and I can’t stop overthinking everything. I’d love to hear honest experiences, success stories and situations where it work out. What made the difference? What did you learn?

How do you fix your self-concept?

How do you stop comparing yourself to other people, even when it comes to physical traits and, objectively, the comparison seems true?

What do you do when physical insecurities hit you hard?

Are robotic affirmations really enough, or is there something else that actually helps?

How do you change your assumptions about someone so you can manifest them the way you want? When I was completely convinced that my SP was obsessed with me, he actually was. But now, even though I understand how the law works, I can’t seem to change my assumptions.

WI repeat things like “ he wants to be with me “ it feels like I’m lying to myself deep down. I know the idea is to persist, but there’s still this inner resistance that makes it hard to truly believe.

How did you personally manage to change your assumptions about someone? What helped you go from not believing something to genuinely accepting it as true? I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences.

I posted my success story 2 weeks ago… today he left me again.
He told me, once again, that he will love me forever, but that I don’t deserve the little love he’s giving me right now. He said he feels empty, he’s afraid of getting hurt, and he’s not okay rn
Over the last week, I was angry because he kept texting me but never asked to see me. Today he admitted that he did it on purpose and was hoping I’d start to hate him a little.
He said he made a mistake by coming back because he ended up hurting me again. I’m scared that this will make him even more afraid to come back in the future.
The thing is, I manifested all of this.
What would you do in my situation? What affirmations would you use? My self-concept is in a good place and I’ll keep affirming for that, but how do I change my assumptions about him, his fears, and the idea of him always coming back and leaving again?

For those who’ve successfully manifested: do you manifest in steps, or do you focus directly on the end scene/final goal?
For example: when you manifest an SP, do you manifest step by step (text message > date > relationship, etc.) or do you go straight to something big like marriage?
Same with money: job > specific amount > bigger amount… or do you manifest a huge amount directly even if it feels unrealistic?

I know every method works differently for everyone, I’m just curious to hear about your personal experiences. Thanks!

This is a bit of a success story. My boyfriend left me 3 months ago, because I was neglecting him and I had emotional crises. Until then our relationship was perfect, he was the person who did everything for me and I felt safe and loved. I tried techniques and it seemed like nothing was working until I saw that there were movements happening behind the scenes and even though I couldn’t understand how, I decided to simply trust. The universe put me in a situation where I had to contact him through an inspired action (I had to travel, he had my money, I would never have contacted him for that if it hadn’t been the last option). I contacted him and he told me he had wanted to contact me for a while. Once I got back he called me and told me to come downstairs, I went down and he showed up under my house with my favorite flowers. EXACTLY WHAT I HAD VISUALIZED AND WRITTEN. He said that the love he feels for me has not changed and we decided to see how it goes.

The problem is that it didn’t go back to how it was, which I think is normal, but he is much more distant and is taking it slowly. Even though I had proof that I can manifest (I also did it the first time when we got together and I manifested the breakup too), I’m starting to spiral, I ask myself why he doesn’t text me and I feel anxious. I don’t want to go into this spiral, I try to tell myself that that is the old story but going back to the initial phase of our relationship where everything is uncertain makes me anxious.

Before breaking up we were talking about moving in together, he is younger than me but he mainly wanted it himself, now instead I see him focused on a different future. How can I get back on track? What should I affirm? I don’t remember how I did it and what I did years ago to make him become the person he was. Now it’s like he is afraid of suffering, which he told me. He doesn’t say “I love you”, but he says he is in love with me. The small things he always used to do are missing. I know I need to work on my self-concept, but I would like to at the same time manifest his change, or rather his return to how he used to be. This is the first time I’m getting back with an ex so everything is new for me and I feel like my body is anxious and is imagining worst-case scenarios, my self-concept is shaking even though I had worked on it. If you have stories about how you maintained your SP after getting them back or advice, they are welcome, thank you.