u/Scared_Town7920

Okay so I went to a sleep over in my friends house, and we were having dinner with his family and one of his brothers didn't come, and when I got back home my friend told me his brother didn't wanna eat with us because I was trans.

Now I found that kinda funny because he was the one that was suffering from it, he was just expelling himself from his own house. He didn't even ask their parents to not let me eat with them he just decided to expell himself instead.

But I also was really annoyed, because wdym you don't wanna eat with me at the table because I'm trans? We don't have to talk or even interact at all, I don't get how me being trans bothers him. Anyways, wanted to hear your opinion on it.

Okay so for context, I make DIY shirts that I couldnt buy. I'm an artist, so why not? I love painting. I use acrylic and paint it on shirts. Anyway, yesterday I stayed up all night to paint a new shirt, it took me about 5-6 hours to paint it, and my ass low-key hurting from sitting that long.

Now, I can't put pictures here, but you can click on my profile and look at my latest post, it's that shirt. Now, imagine that shirt with a huge grey stain at the bottom right, because that's what my brother did.

When you paint with acrylic you need to have a little cup filled with water to switch between colours, so I had it on my desk. The next morning after I finished the shirt, I was so excited to wear it for school because I was really proud of it.

My brother came to our house for dinner, and he came to my room and started chatting with me. He stood next to the shirt I made that was laid on my desk and he complimented it, but he accidentally made the cup spill on the shirt. The water was mixed with acrylic, so it stained it, and also it wetted the design I drew. Obviously I got upset and I started crying, I worked really hard on it and now it was ruined, and I didn't even know how to fix it. He tried to help me but I told him he couldn't, and I told him to get out of my room. He entered my room again and apologised, but I told him I don't forgive him and to go out.

Just so you guys understand, I didn't cuss at him or anything mean like that, I was just upset and wanted to be left for my own. After he drove away because the dinner ended, my dad told me that my brother got OFFENDED from my reaction??? And that it was an accident and he didn't owe me anything? Man, how would you feel if your brother ruined something you made from scratch for like 6 hours?

My brother has no reason to be offended by my reaction, I was literally crying while telling him (calmly) to get out because I wanted to be alone, and he's offended? Why is my dad babying him? My brother is literally pushing 30 and I'm 15.

If you guys think I'm overreacting, then tell me, if so I would immediately apologise to him for reacting like that and making him feel bad. What do you guys think? Am I the asshole?