u/Scary_Tomorrow5116

Why people are reluctant to refer? and which is the better way to apply for jobs?

I am a devops engineer with 10+ years of experience. Recently I have been released from my project and now I need to look for new opportunities. The bench tolerance in my company is hardly 3 months or less. I have been reaching out to people in linkedin, sadly few are my direct connections for reference. Very few took their time responded and referred, but rest, man, what's wrong with these people.

Everyone knows it's a tough market, and what's stopping them to lend a hand to someone.

Anyways, what is the approach you guys are following that has good success rate. Is it naukri? indeed or another job portal?

Please help me.

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u/Scary_Tomorrow5116 — 1 day ago

Few years back oka celeb couple divorce aindi. Ikkada victim(first wife) is good looking than accused(second wife)

Everyone called her homewrecker, pachani kaapuram lo chichu pettindi, husband BMW ni ichesi alto ni techukunnadu, vaadem baagupadatadu, mannu mashanam ani nana racha chesaru.

Few days back same scene repeat aindi, ikkada victim kanna accused good looking. Asalu janalu super, lucky charm anta, golden leg anta, aura anta, eeme kosam aayana state ichesadanta, don't settle for bare minimum anta( don't you dare call it sarcasm, I don't understand how one woman's pain can be termed as sarcasm here). Worst part is there are few celebs who are happy about it.

Reel ki comments chusinapdu felt happy, at least reel post chesinollaki burra lekpoina chuse vallaki undi ani.

I am not here to blame or lecture anyone but this normalization is wrong at so many levels.

Alanti oka post ki nak baga nachina comment

"birds with same feather flock together".

Downvotes padtai I know. Enjoy doing it.

u/Scary_Tomorrow5116 — 16 days ago

we are all we have antaru, okadiki telsindi inkokadi chepparu.

emanna ante we need to talk, emanna adigite I cannot tell you that.

Entha manchi series ra, MG chesesala unnaru. Sollu sodhi tappa twist ledu, reason ledu, asal series ni GOT 8th season la chesestaru ani na strong feeling.

u/Scary_Tomorrow5116 — 18 days ago

So lately, e marriage related posts ekkuva chustna. Even teens are asking questions on how scary would be their married life and all. So na life lo nen chusina, face chesina truth bombs.

Elanu long weekend kada, chadukondi free time lo.

Small story but important.

Nen 10th lo unnapdu pakka ooriki school ki vellevadni, on bicycle. 7 kms journey, 4 kms varaku you can see other people travel on the road, like farmers or someone else. Rest 3 kms ki oka shortcut undedi, in the middle of farms, 99% ma school vallu tappa no one uses it. So isolated that by mistake puncture aina help cheydanki kuda evadu undadu.

Ma uru nunchi nen okkadne 10th class for that school, rest all juniors. Basically school lo 10th ante kunchem hawa untadi kada, like seniors and all ani. On regular days e shortcut lo veltunnapdu rest of the students nannu chuste wish cheydam, or next year em chestav ani adagtam, 10th subjects tough untaya ila something or the other conversations aiyyevi, recognition undedi.

But

Return vachepdu most of the time study hours and special classes valla late aiyyedi, sometimes weekends/holidays kuda vellevadni, due to preparation and classes. There used to be no one on that same road, to talk, to have a conversation, to not to feel bored, or to not to feel alone or sometimes not to feel scared.

Story aipoindi.

What I mean to say is, the same road you feel so good now being single and all, could be painful in the future. Reasons could be

  1. As of now, you are younger, good/better/best looking, full of energy. Simply put, there are other travelers in the same road as you. May not be "along with you" but there are people whom you can approach. Kani same path epdu ilane undadu, there comes a time when there will be no one around you. Then you will feel like evarokaru unte bavunnu kada ani.
  2. Especially men, if you think you can maintain great physical health, good looks, earn well, most importantly, netti meeda bochu kaapadukogalnu ani confidence untene marriage delay cheyyandi. Ledante mimmalni evadu save cheyledu. Insecurity toh sachipotaru cheptunna.
  3. Neeketi telsu anniya ma break up kastalu antava? Idi na batuku and I had my fair share of relationships, few almost gudipesai, almost enti, gudisified. okati marriage varaku vellindi, most beautiful one, but workout avaledu. So when I say there is hope, there is hope.

This is for everyone, what if thanu naku blue drum konte? what if vaadu taagochi thante? My question, what if repu nuvvu sachipote? what if accident lo kaalo cheyyo pothe?

Life oka gamble bro, repu lestamo ledo telidu but alarm matram petkuntam, worry/excite avtam, plan cheskuntam. Ade hope.

So, be hopeful, vere valla life lu ala aiyyay kabatti manavi kuda alane aipotai anedi nijam aite andaru ambanis aipoi undali kada.

Edo na thammullu anukuni nak thochindi cheppa, nachakapote downvote kotesi velpondi, nachite hopeful ga undatanki try cheyndi.

Happy long weekend.

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u/Scary_Tomorrow5116 — 22 days ago

I do work as a DevOps engineer, I work on linux but on very high level. Most of my work involves in aws.

But I really want to learn the core of Linux, like right from the kernel, behind the scenes of daily use commands, the architecture, everything.

Please help me with this, where do I start? Do we have any blogs or tutorials to start from?

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u/Scary_Tomorrow5116 — 24 days ago