u/Scrodet

Specify the type of relationship you're talking about and including an enneagram could be useful.

I'm ISTP-T 6w5

So for most of my life I had monolids. Then I tried using double eyelid tape to create folds. These folds stayed permanently. I was quite happy. Every day I would frequently rub my eyelids, a strange habit that I developed for some reason. Eventually on each of my eyes an eyelid crease formed; a crease that was lower-set than the one I initially created. This was a stroke of misfortune since if this bad crease had formed on one eye, I would've stopped with my habits (which I have) to prevent it from happening to the other. But no, this faulty crease had to form on both eyes on the same day. Now this crease looks terrible. To prevent the bad crease from taking over completely, I have to use extra pressure when blinking and opening my eyes. And even if I do this and my "good" crease is the dominant one, I still look like I have a "triple eyelid". How do I get rid of this bad crease? When my lower crease is dominant, my eyes look less approachable and more unattractive. It has really been bothering me.

Do you think something like topical wrinkle filler would work? I've gotten a mosquito bite on a crease before and it disappeared. If I could press a button to get rid of all my eyelid creases I would, because I could just recreate them.

Sorry if this is confusing, I tried explaining as best as I could.

I hit puberty early, when I was 12. At 13 I had my biggest spurt, and I was already 5'7. Then I stopped growing for a very long time, probably a year. I thought I was 5'7.5 but I measured recently and apparently I'm 5'8.5 now which means I must've grown an inch within the last 8 months. I'm 14, turning 15 in a few months.

Seeing all the stories of men who have stopped growing at 12-14, im pretty scared knowing that could possibly be the case for me

For reference:

East Asian

Underweight, 110 lbs

Dad is 5'5

Mom is 5'4.5 (my father tells me I got my mother's genetics)

Developed "hair" at late 12 years old

Deep voice (like a fully grown man) at 13 😭

I really wanna make it to 5'9-5'11, although I'm happy where I am now. Is this realistic?