friend struggling
a friend of mine is really very confused regarding what field she should get in (engineering grad). im not here ask about the fields, but how do I help her. shes really low rn and said that she might leave college and join some local one in aur hometown cuz she thinks she can't do anything and is just wasting money for a degree in a big college, I told her she's not behind, she's not lacking and she said that you're sugarcoating stuff which I'm not, she's hasn't started anything yet cuz she's confused and she's seeing people around her choose their fields and work, we have completed only our first year at college, and we are in summer rn. how do I comfort her and tell her that it's okay and she's not lacking, she is indeed competent, has really strong acads and i believe in her but she's just led back by something, I'm gonna go meet her too in a few days at her house. I told her it's okay if you choose a path and try it out, and then pivot to something else if you want to. im really concerned for her