u/Sensitive_East_59

Hello, 29F from the Philippines here looking for a genuine long-term relationship :)

I’m currently in medical school (previously worked full-time before going back to pursue my dream of becoming a doctor) and I also teach at a uni on the side. I’m 5’2” (5’3 on a good sunny day), 50kg, slightly fair complexion, single/never married, no kids.

I grew up with my adoptive father who is Australian, which made me more comfortable with western men and communication styles. I’m independent (but never domineering), loyal, affectionate and caring, and bit more traditional. I have a lot of interests too, but we can leave that for another time :)

About you:

• 26–40 years old, single
• At least 5”6 (coz I like wearing heels :))
• Emotionally mature, responsible, and respectful
• Has a stable job/career and hardworking
• Family-oriented and open to a serious long-term relationship
• Good communicator (no, I don’t mean constant 24/7 messaging),
• Values peace and drama-free life above all else, and
• Romantic (this is a must hheeh)

If you think we can get along, say hi in my messages :)

PS: You don’t have to be the most interesting in the bunch okay? I just want you to be yourself (as I will be) :) :P

Sometimes I see beautiful wedding gowns and think about what it would be like to wear one someday. But when I think about marriage itself, I honestly feel more exhausting? 

I know I could probably find someone if I really wanted to. The issue isn’t finding a partner, it’s everything that comes with it like being responsible for another person, sharing finances and life decisions, worrying about their health, etc.

I also can’t really imagine having to constantly think about a husband’s needs, be a good wife, build relationships with the in-laws, and become part of another family’s entire clan. I’m a good person, but you know what I mean?

They say who you marry is one of the most important financial decisions you’ll ever make. Is that actually true? Because sometimes I feel like I can build the life I want on my own naman.

Honestly, there are times when I can imagine having children through IVF with a sperm donor more easily than I can imagine being married. Raising a child somehow feels less overwhelming to me than sharing my entire life with another adult.

Am I selfish? Or am I just too comfortable being single? Maybe my perspective will change someday. But that’s where I’m at right now.

Anyone else feel this way? Would rather have kids than be married? 

Where to buy reasonably-priced gold? Planning to buy 20g, just for start

In light of the bot purge, and with some blind bashers clearly happy to see that Heart lost a huge number of followers, semeingly to support their narrative that she bought bots, I compared her numbers with other B-list artists, and lo and behold, the losses are actually pretty similar. Therefore, conclude what you wanna conclude haha

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