u/Separate_Building717

I’ve been struggling with something, and I’m not entirely sure how to approach it. I [20F], met a guy on fb and decided to go on a date with him. When I first saw him in person, I knew right away that I wasn’t visually attracted to him. If I saw him irl, he would’ve been the last person I‘d choose. We went on the date, and it went well. We played arcade games, had dinner, chatted a little, and it seemed nice, but I wasn’t exactly attracted. I decided to go on a second date, since I enjoyed it. We went to a drive-in movie, and I enjoyed that as well. We shared our first kiss, and we cuddled throughout the movie. It was around the 4th date that we decided to make it official, and I was the one to initiate it. We’ve been dating for about 3 months, and I’m slowly starting to think that this isn’t the right person for me. He makes good conversation and he has no problem showing me he cares, but I have yet to experience any romantic feelings for him. There were moments where I might’ve thought something was sweet, but as a whole that’s about it. I’m also still not completely attracted either.

I feel like he is expecting some sort of long term relationship, that we marry and perhaps have children, but I don’t see myself staying in the state that I live in. I have full intent on moving to NYC, and no amount of dates is going to change that.

My parents think I should give it some time, but I’m growing anxious to the point that I want to decide now. At the same time, I’m deathly afraid of hurting his feelings. I’m not sure if I should stick it out for a while longer, or just openly confess to not being into him.

Hi everyone! This is my first Reddit post, and I could really use some help with writing my poster for a concert. I’m seeing bts in Vegas for two nights, and I will be close enough for them to read signs. For context I am an army but I also love to ride motorcycles, and would like to ask Jungkook to go on a bike ride with me. My Korean is intermediate/low but I want to make sure that everything is grammatically correct. I was thinking of writing something like this:

“Jungkook, I have a motorcycle too! Let’s ride together!”

It’ll be tricky to write on a 2 by 3 foot poster, and I want to be accommodating so others can see as well since I will be on the floor. Do I write formally or informally in this context?